Dating to a husband may sound boring but trust me it will definitely bring that charm in your married life. With daily household chores, kids whether it is small babies or school going kids as parents we are too busy with them. Have you remembered when was the last time you both sat and talked about each other apart from family talks ? Have you tried any date ideas with your spouse after marriage?
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If not, then stick around with the post. No, I am not sharing Instagram date ideas which are not possible in real life. Instead of that I am sharing with you small things which matters a lot as a couple to keep that love alive.
Okay,
What do you mean by dating exactly?
In today's world dating means spending your quality time with your loved ones. That could be your spouse, your friends, your dad or mom, your daughter or son or even your grandparents. We believe in this and we deliberately enjoy this kind of date night frequently. Nowadays dating is not restricted to boyfriends and girlfriends.
Yes, Husband and wife should go on a date. Because once you become parents your priority automatically changes and you will get buried in responsibility. Both of you forget to have your own personal life too.
I believe if parents are happy the vibes of the house will be happy.
So , How can we date our partners?
If you have new born or toddlers and you are struggling to have husband and wife time then try out these easy indoor date night ideas filled with love and fun even when your kids are around you.
1. Video games
We all have a big screen at our home. So why not utilize it with a video game. Try to keep it short for at least 45 minutes and enjoy this video game with your spouse. It is really fun to beat your spouse.
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2. Filming a Reel
These are our favourites. Mr. Hubby is not a social media person but yes sometimes he likes to have dance reels with me. From the time of tiktok we are doing this funny dance filming date. Yes, it is filled with lots of fun, laughter and our kids also enjoyed it with us. Check out our reel here ๐ซข
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3. Dance Party
Have a dance party at least twice in a month. Whenever our toddlers were crying getting out of our hands we turned the screen on and all the family danced together. ๐๐ It may sound bored to you but trust me you all will have so much fun. And the best part is your toddler get tired fast and can sleep for hours ๐คซ
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4.Barbeque Nights
Whenever you want to eat something restaurant style and due to babies you can't go out then try this idea. Having a barbecue set is easy and there are tons of recipes on YouTube. Have some wine and home grilled barbecue with your spouse and enjoy the date nights.
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5. Cooking Together
Date should not be at fancy restaurants or at parks only. It could be in your kitchen too. Have you done cooking with your partner? Both of you can wear the same apron and get ready to cook your favourite dishes. Try to make pizza or bake a cake for kids or cook something your family favourite. Trust me this date idea takes your love to the upper level.
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6. Recreation of drink / ice cream
Mr. Hubby and I love to have drinks ( mocktail or cocktail both ๐) and ice creams are our weakness. We used to recreate our drinks in many varieties and try to make fruit ice cream at home too. Just to have your creative juices together ๐
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7. Movie Nights
We have enjoyed movie nights lately from last two years. Blessed to have Netflix and Disney Hotstar ( we watch mostly on these two only ) Shut down your kitchen as early as possible, Pop up some popcorn at home set some warm blankets, pillow and dim the lights of your living room, taddaaa have a fun filled movie night with your spouse. Try to do it after putting your kids to sleep .
Some outdoor date night ideas :
If you are able to arrange a babysitter for 2 or 3 hours then try out these pocket friendly outdoor date ideas with your spouse.
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8. Cycling
As kids we used to cycle a lot. Recreate your childhood memories with your husband. We all have cycles at home. Why not have a race with your husband. Or even go on cycling for particular miles. This is one of the soothing experiences. Workout with enjoyment ๐
9. Badminton/ Basket Ball
From winter vacation everywhere you can see children playing badminton and basketball. Have you played with your spouse? Try it. You will have fun and most importantly your kids will enjoy watching both of you. This badminton or basketball ball activity is filled with lots of fun, laughter and of course love.
10. Star Gazing
Once in a while try to go out for star gazing with your spouse. You just have to go to your Terrace with a pillow and mat. Lay down with your spouse and enjoy star gazing. Did you remember when was the last time you saw the night sky ?
You can enjoy this activity with your kids too. No need to have a babysitter. This is a really beautiful date night idea.
11. Kulfi/ Gola Date
As kids we ate lots of kala khatta or mataka kulfi. Go on a night walk and if you are blessed to have matak kulfi vala or gola in your neighborhood then enjoy it with your spouse. Definitely visit this thela and recreate your childhood memories with your spouse and give the same happiness to your kids.
13. Sip and Paint Class
If your budget is a little bit high then you can attend this sip and paint party. Where you can sip and learn painting. These are quite popular in these days. You can find it in your nearest area and have this thrilling party with your spouse.
13. Dance Class
If you and your partner love to dance, then join any dance workshop together. There are many promotional dance workout workshops. You can register and Enjoy this dance class with your spouse. This brings really lots of happiness and fun.
14. Workout
If both of you are exercise freaks then try to sign up for Jim. Or else you can do it at home too. Have a designated area at your home. Filled with minimum exercise equipment and voila, have a workout fun with your Spouse.
15. Live Show :
Try to attend a live show. I remember the last time we witnessed the Jubin Nautiyal Live show in our neighborhood. It was so so thrilling. Try to enjoy this kind of thrilling date.
16. Evening at beach
If you have a beach area nearby then try to visit at least quarterly. Spend time with sand, sea, sun and your romantic husband and your kids. Don't forget to try out various activities at the beach. Like paragliding, boat races, banana boats and making sand castles with kids.
17. Long Drive On a Bike
This is my all time favourite. Long drive on bike with your spouse. You may have this long drive before marriage. Try to include this long drive on a monthly basis. Just you and your spouse can go on long drives, have tea at tapari and enjoy the breeze. Forget all household stress and just enjoy the long road with a gentle breeze and hold your spouse tightly.
18. Coffee Date
Last but not the least. If your spouse loves to have a coffee then try to have a coffee date with a twist. Find out about the newly opened cafe and dare to try out a new place and new coffee. We always wanted to check out new places and variety of coffee.
Conclusion:
Having a date night with a husband is a must to maintain harmony in your life. Our kids are watching us, observing us and learning. Creating a fun and love-feel environment not only brings happiness but also uplifts our home vibes. A loving and laughing parent is the only kids need to see. We all had stress but I think this is the only way to deal with your tiny or biggest problem as a parent and as a husband and wife.
Question of the day
What is your favourite date night ideas? Share your most memorable date in the comment section.
Till then have fun.
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