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HEALTHY DINNER FOR WEEK : MARCH 2024

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How are you ? April is started already and how life is going? Steady or with full speed? Mine is going with full speed. Mini vacation are over and school has started. Again we are busy with school, study little bit and toddlers play time. Healthy dinners are the most important part of our Indian houses. We Indian families have everyday dinner together because it is the time where we meet each other and we talk with each other.  This was the scene of our childhood lives. Many of you agreed with it.  But,  In my house dinner time is where we strictly off the screens whether it is big or small screens and talk over the meal.  Dinner is the special time where we all have meals with discussion and laughter so we did it mindfully.  A healthy dinner has always been my goal. Earlier there was a house help when my baby was small but now we don't have any help. So the goal is to cook food at home and have a meal with the family, which is sometimes very difficult. But with meal planning I ma

10. SIMPLE STUDY TIPS FOR FINAL EXAM (PRIMARY STUDENTS)

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Simple study tips specially for moms whose kids are in primary sections.  Introduction March is the exam period for students as well as for parents. Small kids are carefree but parents are more stressed. By using this 10 simple study tips your kid can do well in final exam.  Exam  means pressure. But have you observed we parents only experience this pressure and our kids are stress free. Because they don't know what the pressure is?  Parents are the ones introducing them to " PRESSURE "  And pollute our home atmosphere.   PS : Freepik If you are a mommy and you have kid in primary section then you must keep yourself strees free.  Let me remind you , we are not going to write the exams for our kids.  We mothers always take unnecessary stress on behalf of our kids for completing the syllabus, for memorising the question answer, for learning the spelling and bla, bla, bla.  And suddenly we realised our kids are too behind! ( As per our point of views 😜)  And the game start

A peaceful morning with toddlers

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A peaceful morning start is a great way to have a good day. Everyone wants to start a day peacefully. As a mom I am trying to have a calm morning. But it is possible only when I have my morning cup of tea -- To recharge myself and to recharge the whole house.  Hope you relate with it mommy? Until my twins were small babies our routine was set but as soon as they grew up and started walking my morning routine was falling down. It becomes clumsy and often I lose my temper. It was very difficult to get myself recharged for the day.  I cried, I shouted, I screamed and finally I turned to them in front of the screen. I know none of this was going to work in the long run. I was struggling.  When you become a mom everything depends on having a solid routine. Routine which helps toddlers to understand what they have to do and what mummy is going to do after every 10 to 15 minutes. Like, They have to brush  teeth, ( of course mummy is going to do it for them) , they have to let mumma cook break

SUPPORT SYSTEM THAT EVERY MOM NEEDS

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SUPPORT SYSTEM THAT EVERY MOM NEEDS  We moms are always in a roller coaster. Whether it is every day school, Every day tiffin for Mr. Hubby, bath and feed to your little one, feeding the elder one in a family and...list will go on and on ...... Roller coaster ride.  We  all need our support system. Every mom should have at least one support system to PAUSE, REFRESH and to RESTART. But the question is how ? A support system is actually a person with whom you can relax, cry, laugh, travel, have fun and recharge yourself.  We have to find one person who brings joy to our face. 🥰 Why is this Support System required? In simple terms to maintain our mental health.  Yes. It is very important to take care of our mental health as we are catering to many services of mom, wife, daughter in law, chef, laundry woman, decorator, party organisers, nutritionist and many more. The more responsibility the more mental load.  And so we need our support system. To, 1) Reduce stress : Our support system he

6 Things I Learnt As Twin Mom

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6 Things I learned newly as twin mom compared to single kid mom Motherhood is the blessing and NOT everyone can have this privilege. Whether you are new mom or second time mom or third time mom, everytime you get to learn something new because every pregnancy is different and so baby too. This time with twin babies I learned  lots of things newly. Twin baby is very difficult motherhood era for me due to nuclear family set up.  When you become second time mother you are more confident, right? You are NOT easily get panic when baby is crying. You know exactly what does your baby want ? Something like that happened to me too. I am pretty sure to handle everything by single handle - no - no - I am not alone, this time I have my 9 year old daughter and with her this twin motherhood journey was exciting and terrific. I am always grateful to the God for giving me my darling.  When my elder ONE born I was emotional for  everything like cleanliness, baby food, baby bath, baby emotions etc. As c

BLW : Palak Chilla 8 Months +

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Baby Lead Weaning with traditional and trusted food. BLW  -  It is a tough process but it teaches you lots of things 😁. Patience, calm and  motivation Right Mommies?  Who have gone through this phase ?  They know it is tedious and hectic but we are in nurturing baby . Still every mom is highly motivated to do this task.  What is BLW? Baby Lead Weaning actually it is baby lead feeding. The stage where you have to start solid food to your baby. With use of social media you get stimulated highly amount of information. But I trust mostly on our traditional food. I always consider to ask my mom or my bua what to feed and whether to feed it or not. Though everything available on our fingers tips. And second thing is our mommy- gut feeling. Try our variation because you have to feed multiple times of the day to this tiny human. So do not get demotivated and go blindly our trusted traditional food for babies.  How do you prepare food for babies? When you are in a nuclear family where you are

Life Lately July

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 Hi, there, I hope you all are fine. We all are still juggling.  It is the last week of July 2023 and we are in our baby steps. On 1st July we enter in this new house and mentally prepared for new home and new challenge on a positive note.😃 There is no such thing --- no, but gradually I am learning to take every step slowly with positive mindset. It doesn't mean you have to be happy. I am trying to minimise my irritation and negativity. It is really difficult where you have to unpack your whole house, the elder ones new school, study, exam, twin toddlers and Mr. Hubby. Hussshhh.... ! We decided to go as slowly as possible. It is one of the phases which will fade away not very soon but yes, it will. I love to arrange a home but with twin toddlers it is quite tough. Then I thought these were the precious memories of my twins. They will be growing up here ! That's why I am updating my life Lately on my blog. MemoryFlies 😊 We shifted to a new house, a new city, new surroundings a