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HEALTHY DINNER FOR WEEK : MARCH 2024

By Neeta
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How are you ? April is started already and how life is going? Steady or with full speed? Mine is going with full speed. Mini vacation are over and school has started. Again we are busy with school, study little bit and toddlers play time. Healthy dinners are the most important part of our Indian houses. We Indian families have everyday dinner together because it is the time where we meet each other and we talk with each other.  This was the scene of our childhood lives. Many of you agreed with it.  But,  In my house dinner time is where we strictly off the screens whether it is big or small screens and talk over the meal.  Dinner is the special time where we all have meals with discussion and laughter so we did it mindfully.  A healthy dinner has always been my goal. Earlier there was a house help when my baby was small but now we don't have any help. So the goal is to cook food at home and have a meal with the family, which is sometimes very difficult. But with meal planning I ma
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Baby Shower

By Neeta
Hello galss….


Eyes blinked? Mine too. It is the most wonderful and memorable event of every mom’s life!

It’s been 2 years for my baby shower but still I feel like it was yesterday…. Thanks a lotttt Hubby for such memorable event. It was on my birthday, nitin wanted to give me this event as a gift by surrounding my family member, relative, friends and near and dear one. It was the best birthday gift in my life and the best celebration with my baby too.

Stop, stop, and stop me please…..before I start to narrate my baby shower……it’s not mine…

Its my little sister’s baby shower. I can not believe that she is carrying cause she is still a baby girl for me….yupp….it’s her baby shower on 31 Jan 2016, and I am so glad that I am able to hold this moment on my blog.

In India it is called Oatibharan / Dohale Jevan. The principal reason for this ceremony is to ask the Divine to protect the baby in the womb and encourage the pregnant women to maintain positive mind and healthy body. We should celebrate this event to make both of them (pregnant women and baby in her womb) happy. It is believed the in 7th month of pregnancy the child taste buds is developed and hence pregrent women carving for different variety of food. Dohale jevan is special meal which the pregnant ladies carve or wanted to eat. And currently she is carving for sweet, gulabjamun.

Here she is , JAYA




Chhooo cute she is looking with green sarri and flowers. She used to hate gajara but look at her now she is wearing only flowers all over her body. Let me explain you, Mukut ( on her forehead), Kambarpatta (flowers garland around her waist) Bajuband ( Flowers garland above part of her hand) Gajara rounded to her wrist. And Huge flowers garland.


with her hubby..
I love this small flowers basket….isnt it looking stunning!!!




Small decoration, we made it.

Oatibharan


Lets begins with the main ceremoney First mumma and mother in law do the auction (its marathi word means oovalane) and then fulfill her oati with sarri, coconut, some rice grains, blouse piece, fruits, sweet and tones of blessing.

Fun part of this event is to identify whether it is girl or boy?
 

  
These are two bowls under which two sweets kept.....Barfi for baby girl and Pedha for baby boy. After oatibharna both husband and wife asked to put one finger on one bowl and then we open it….



And it comes barfi means its baby girl, they both wish to have girl only. 

Blessed by family member....





 God bless the cute couple.....lottsss of love to both of youuu....


Do u have special moment like this ?

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  1. Unknown9 February 2016 at 01:25

    awsm memorable day ding ding nd waiting here filse mama banuga me dhanakdhadhan dhanakdhadhan. ...###

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  2. Memory Flies9 February 2016 at 08:19

    Years dear bro

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