SAEE TURNS 13

 My baby girl is now Teenagers 😍 

Thrilling, exciting and for me somehow "Please God give me the strength 😁

I am surprised to see her personality changes from last year to this years. Being introvert she is now becoming more and more explorer. Being bold and at the same time beautiful are the right adjectives for my baby doll.

13  SPECIAL BIRTHDAY PARTY 

Till one day before her birthday she was not sure that her friends will come for birthday. But still I insisted to invite all of them. And she was surprised that her gang came and explore the party.

Birthday morning started with hug, kiss and giggles from us and her little twin sisters. Then I let  her allowed to spend the day as per her wish. Wishing her in every 1 hour made her smile more. I cooked her favourite all meals,  breakfast, lunch and snacks . 

Anyways the evening came with surprise that her gang was about to come at home for the birthday party. She was the most happiest birthday girl.😘 Because last two years birthday party was booring - you can imagine birthday party without friends 😑 This year birthday party was more exciting.

The party started late @ 9 pm. And most depressing things was the house was not at all decorated. She was at home whole day but not sured anyone will come ? And so she was sad and not ready to decorate the house. I also didn't insist. 

But we had a blast. The perfect teenager birthday party was surprising for me too. Nowadays kids are only interested in taking asthetic pictures. I was expecting they will dance and sing but to my surprise they were buried in the bedroom for getting ready. Infact they gave her gift there only 😁 and then their photoshoot 😇😇

Birthday cake was surprising but she didn't like that surprise. We have to adore the boundaries of our kids too. 

THINGS I ADORE 

1. HER BOLDNESS: 

I don't know in real world means out of the home, is she really bold ? But after listening her school talk I feel yes, she is becoming bold. She is the one who identified wrong things and giving me justification about that. 

I patted on my shoulder and said to myself, yeaaa....I raised her correct 😘

My motto is my girls should learn to fight for herself and she did it. I hope she will achieve that also as early as possible.

2. SPORTS : 

She is taking intrest in sports and many other outdoor activities. And as a parent's we also ensures that she will get in right place with right environment. For me her sports intrest is important and  I love it was not temporary. Badminton, Vollyball and football are her current intrest. 

3. FRIENDSHIP : 

Last year my doll struggle to make friends and now it has been just second year, whole class is now her friend. She knows each and every person in her class and talk with everyone. 

That is my win- win. I always taught her to not hate anyone and being friendly with whole class is actually give confidence. She achieved it. 😍 Not becoming teachers pet but should always talk with each one from first bench to last bench and she did it.

4. CHOOSE RIGHT: 

I am amazed that she understands what is right for her or who is right for her. She chooses who choose her and never beg to anyone. That's required lots of courage. I am proud that she is more confident and more independent. 

5. CONFIDENCE: 

I was always worry, being introvert how her confidence level will increase. But seeing now as a teenager she is more confident in school, with friends, with sports and never have any fear of being alone. And that is ...." My parenting 😎 

FAVOURITE :

Game : Football, Vollyball, Karate and badminton 

Dance : Hip Hop

Music: BTS, K pop

Webseries : Not into that much but yes ....

K drama : Watching with Mummy but very few you can say one or two 😊

Food : Homemade Paneer and Chicken, shawarma, pizza, Burger and all fruits.

Hobbies: Drawing, sketching, mandala, Editing videos.

Achievement : 

Successfully completed 3 months of Badminton. I was not sure that she will continue but yes she like the fitness and the game.

Feel sorry that she was unable to join Judo Karate.

Love reading and she completed 3 books till August. Proud that she Love to read my genres too.

Alchemist, 

Metamorphosis, 

Harry Potter 1, 

Geronimo Stilton series 2 books.

Study: She is fine. Though school is very bad in terms of study she finally understand that need to study to learn herself and not for the grades. She enjoyed other activities held in school. 

First in Essay Writing , Hand writing.

Choose for speaking on stage for anchoring.

That's it. I will write more and more but don't have that much time. I like to re read my doll's every years progress. If you want to read the link is below:

Saee turns 11 

Saee Turns 10

Saee turns 9

I am greatful to God for giving me such wonderful, adorable and mature daughter. 

My first born child you are always my adorable and special kid. I live your More than anything in my life. I always choose you again and again. 

"May you have good luck  in friendship and social life. May you achieve everything whatever you want. May God give me that strength to fulfill your wishes. "

I hope I am able to find her peace and happiness. God give me the strength to understand her and communicate with her 😜

Saee turns 10

It is 10 years ! Double digit ! Mr. Hubby and I still can't believe our tiny first baby grew up as a girl. She came into our life on this day and made us parents. Incredible 😊

I remember the day when I requested the Doctor to wait for 15 August. But the due date is already over and it was the 9th day,  so the doctor didn't want to take any risk and  she came ...with natural delivery 😊 It was the most beautiful and emotional experience for us. 

1 year old 

2 year old

3 year old

4 years old

5 years old

6 year old

7 years old

8 years old

9 years old

10 year old 

These memories bring tears to our eyes. Specially Mr. Hubby is attached more to her.  He wrote a letter on her 10 th birthday keeping the tradition to maintain Dad's corner on MemoryFlies.

She was very excited as usual but this time she didn't count her birthday month from January. Hmmm... I guess this is a sign of a growing girl. 

So the birthday girl demands a birthday party only with her friends and does not want to do anything like a small baby birthday kind. Means she doesn't want that birthday cap, birthday banner, candles and doesn't want to wear frill frocks. 

And we nodded 😊

She wanted to be simple and to mingle with friends. So the birthday party was small at home. 

Pappa took off from the office. She didn't sleep till 11:15 on 13 August but I insisted on sleeping so she could have a good sleep because she wanted to go to school. In the morning we hugged the birthday girl and wished by singing a song. My twins were looking at us and then their sister.

I made her all her favourite meals. Breakfast was Paratha, juice, tiffin box was potato cheese sandwich and dinner was paneer burji gravy with Paratha. Everything was YUM! According to her 😉 Happy Me!

Then she gets ready for school. The first time she distributed chocolates in her school. She loved it when the whole class wished her. Every time there is a long list of guests and so I was unable to send her school. This year there were no grown up so she actually enjoyed her birthday with her friends. Kids love to be with their age group. 

I guess birthday parties should be for only kids. What do you think?

The menu was simple. Butterscotch flavour cake, as she wants to try something else apart from chocolate cake. Lots of chips, her favourite small kachori and cold drink MAZA with chocolate along with cornflakes chivda. It is fulfilling and followed by dinner. I cooked her favourite dish at home - paneer burji gravy with butter paratha.

The birthday party ended with a game. They played by themselves and we didn't interfere with kids. My twins enjoyed it too with so much loud voice. 

So the favourite part of the post. Celebration was at a low level but this is the first birthday where I saw her so so happy. The way she wanted to be.

Emotional : 

She is getting more emotional nowadays. If something happened tears automatically flowing from her eyes. 

Physical  : 

Get tired very fast. She is more into outdoor games. She had lots of walks and running.

Favourite food : 

Still her favourite is Paneer,  homemade chicken and mutton, butter chicken, chicken kabab, parathas, etc She loves to have all seasonal fruits. Yep, she is a foodie and so the list will be long.

Siblings Love: 

she is very sensitive about siblings. Handle them very well. Morning starts with hugs and plays.

Favourite activity : 

Greeting card making, love to do painting by watching youtube. 

Favourite show : 

Aau piyu show, wonderland family sometimes, love to watch art channels. Barbie , miss Rachel, cocomelon are still her favourite.

Favourite movie : Still not into it. 

Favourite books :  Geronimo Stilton series. 

She is not a morning person and loves to sleep. She loves to organise her books, study table and her wardrobes. According to her she managed it well but I have to do some sort of checking in between... You know mommy- things 

She loves to study history and EVS.  Her favourite subject was studying Shivaji Maharaj. She still didn't like Maths. 

Recently we changed her board from STATE to CBSE . So there is a huge change in school, studies, friends circle and everything. Yes, I know she is going away slowly because of her school, play time and studies. 

Dad's corner : 

A letter from dad on her 9 th birthday. 

A letter from dad on her 7 th birthday

And we as parents are still adjusting to these tiny things. 

My favourite time : We talked for at least 10 minutes at bed time. Where she shares everything about her whole day. I love to keep this tradition. Let's see. 

Saee turns 9 

Saee turns 8 

Saee turns 3

I am grateful to God for giving such a sweet daughter. We as parents do not have any expectations. Rather we are accepting the way she developed as a human being. Our attempt to make her a good human being. 

Happy Birthday my little doll. Stay blessed and stay happy always my love 💕.

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अरे यार 10 वर्षाची झाली मी …

अंग झालीस पण 10 वर्षाची बापरे!  तुला बघता कधी मोठी झालीस समजलेच नाही ग ! मोठी झालीस हे बोलण्यामागे खूप जबाबदारी आणि एक वेगळीच गम्मत आहे बरं का ...!

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आता तू मुंबई मध्ये परत आली आहेस , तुला नवीन मित्र मैत्रिणी भेटणार तुझे खरे नवीन आयुष्य सुरु होणार . शाळेत नवीन अभ्यास , नवीन शिक्षक सगळे कसे नवनवीन .. मज्जा आहे बुवा तुझी .. 

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तुझा पप्पा ....

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