Wednesday, 14 June 2023

Summer dates with Dad

Hello June 2023,





Daddy love her daughter so much and always excited to take her out. I called it Date with Dad and both love it too 😊The bonding between dad and daughter is always special and I want to save this memory on my blog as these are the special moments for us as a parents. 


We are in half of the year 2023. Is it going so fast for me or  you guys feel the same speed?  school will start and so our mom duties (dauda dauda bhaga bhaga sa) 😭😡😊


How was your summer holiday?Our was filled with fun and a little bit of stress. But I will share some happiness. 

A summer date with dad - As the title of my blog post. Why I called  a date because daddy is her favourite than a mom and she loves to travel with him. Dad get very less time but we are happy to have as much as dad can. This summer holiday we want to make it special for her because the last two year was stressful for us. Arrival of twins siblings made her happy but more responsible too (Mommy guilt is here) but I guess this is the time where she is learning what is family love.  





Daddy loves to go with the family. I am afraid to travel with a twin baby due to numerous reasons. On the last day of her school her dad asked her to make a bucket list of the places where she wants to go. It should be a one day outing only. And so she made it. Dad has only weekends and so it was packed with daddy -daughter date.😃😊 

I am so happy to see her happy. She convinced me to be with her but I denied. Cruel mum 😭 . I wanted to go out with her. But I don't want to mess her day out with dad. At least she can fully enjoy. 


So what was her bucket list? 

Sharing some major glimpses of summer date with dad. We stayed in Mumbai and she is 9 years old now. We didn't take her out because she was so small to explore Mumbai train travel. She had been to many places like Andman, Kashmir and Kerla too. When we decided to take her to the Mumbai darshan lock down started. 😑 Now we are ready (we thought ) she is ready to travel.



Summer holiday starts from the second week of April. She had to rest, sleep, screen and play for hours with friends in the first two weeks. Then our bucket list was ready and most importantly dad also got free for her daughter.



The first weekend was Gate way of India. 

Dad prepared her like, how to reach over there? 

How to take a ticket from the railway station? 

How many stations have to cross ? 

And mentally prepared her for the RUSH of the local train.






She read it in her GK book and then watched it on YouTube too. When she actually travelled with her dad, she realised how far it is and how crowded it. She loved it though it was crowded and dirty. (True!)  Not able to had a fairy round due to the crowd but she enjoyed her first date with her dad. Had ice cream only as she was too tired to eat anything. Reached home and slept.



Another weekend of the summer holiday was Nehru planetarium. Both were very excited. The first time she traveled with the A.C. local train and got frozen. 



She insisted on having a denim jacket but I was denied due to the heat. Poor my daughter,😑 but she managed. I think these are things where our children should learn how to cope up with unfavorable situations on their own, right? What do you think?


Outside look of the place


On planet





I still have not checked this place. But both of them enjoyed it.

Some To Dos if you haven't checked out: 

# You have to pre Book tickets.

# Shows are in 3 languages, Marathi, English and Hindi. You can choose as per your comfort.

# There is cafeteria so you can have snacks.  

# There are many things which we learnt about our planet in a very short time. 



Next weekend date : Pool Party. 

She had a school picnic where she was unable to enjoy because  it was in winter, and there was no pick and drop facility available. Yes, she missed many things due to our twins schedule (feel sorry for her) but we promised her to have lots of celebrations during her summer holidays. And here we are keeping our promise! 



The pool party was at the farmhouse. I don't like crowded pools and I prefer to have two families only. We had the clean and non messy pool party. Music was in moderation and with twins we  enjoyed.  





Food was awesome like home cooked. It was baby friendly too. The lawn was clean, the trees shades and whole farm was beautiful.  This date was with family and we enjoyed it fully.


And rest of summer holiday at nannis house with her cousins.  Meanwhile we enjoyed movie dates at home with bucket of homemade.popcorn and mangoes.



This post was created for the Blogaberry Creative (Monthly) Challenge.


How was your Summer holiday? 






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13 comments:

  1. It's great to included daddy-daughter dates during the holidays. Maybe I should also tell my husband to do this with his kids individually of course.

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    1. Glad that you like it. Sure kids will enjoy this.

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  2. Date with Daddy was not applicable in my life as in our times it was a silent, caring and angry man who taught us discipline and how to be independent....But I want it to be like this date with daddy for my son ... I have no daughter :( this bonding is very important as i realized with time it makes life simple and easy for both dad and child... But I am my son's first date and there is no compromise on that... He is my darling cute boyfriend. :)

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    1. Yeaa I agree son is first boyfriend,,❤️

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  3. So sweet. Don't feel guilty, I'm sure she understands how it is to take care of kids. Its so good to know that at least you made her vacations memorable by keeping a date with father. I bet she will cherish this memory forever.

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  4. It was great to read some joyful memories of the dad and daughter duo. Feels nostalgic as we can't go back to our childhood days and have a totally carefree holiday.

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  5. What a beautiful ode to a father and daughter and their awesome holidays. I like the way you daughter does all her research and enjoys time with her dad. She is learning and enjoying at the same time.

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  6. I absolutely loved reading about your summer holiday adventures with your daughter and her special "Date with Dad." The way you shared your experiences and the joy you feel as parents is heartwarming. It's wonderful to see the effort you put into creating memorable moments for your daughter, despite the challenges of having twins. Your post captures the essence of family love and the importance of spending quality time together. Thank you for sharing these beautiful memories with your readers!

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  7. Wow, your post about the special bond between a father and daughter is truly heartwarming! "Date with Dad" sounds like such a lovely concept, and it's beautiful to see how much love and excitement you both share during these outings. Saving and documenting these memories on your blog is a fantastic idea because these moments are truly precious. It's amazing to witness the strong connection between parents and children.
    -Anjali

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  8. In our case my daughter enjoys mom-daughter dates more since my husband isn't high on going out much. We went to Elephanta caves, Flamingo ferries, movie and shipping dates and so much more. I agree it's fun!

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