Hello,
How are you? Happy May!😊. Keeping my toddler busy and content is the toughest job ever currently. With the help of our didi, we do enjoyed a lot. It is delightful to see how these tiny people growing and bring lot of joy in our life. Due to nuclear family in the early days we had to have a babysitter because it was very difficult for me to handle everything. My health was hampering and so there was an urgent need to have loving and helpful babysitter or nanny. By God sake I had a nanny who was really loving and caring.
Today's topic is all about hiring a babysitter. I wish I could have this knowledge before I hired a babysitter. But with flow of life I learned these things.
Keeping a babysitter is requirements. Due to nuclear family when there is no one to help you then you must hire a babysitter. It will give you rest and keep you calm.
But in India Babysitters, maid or cook in short these helping staff have the more attitude. We ladies have to be very soft conversation with them but they will not have any soft voice. 😁 Because it is very difficult to get the nice babysitter / maid and most important she should be good in work and stay atleast 6 months. I had an experience while interviewing them, their voice is so loud than us. Most of the time it look they will going to pay us. 😐
How to handle these things?
Babysitter work on hourly basis. Be smart before appointing them. Following is the list of questions you should ask before hiring a babysitter.
Time :
You should be very clear about timing. Ask them that they have to come on time everyday. And she should inform in case of late.
Means if you are scheduling for 2 to 6 then she should come sharp 2. If she came @2:15 then she should left 6 :15 pm. You have to be very clear about this. Because babysitter charge on hourly basis.
Hygine :
This is the most important topic HYGINE. Babysitter have to follow your prescribed house rules. If babysitter is clean then only you can handover baby to her.
Check out the following points :
👵She should have bath and came in clean cotton soft clothes.
👵No fancy clothes allowed because that will hurt baby's delicate skin.
👵No strong perfume allowed. Mild perfume should be there.
👵Hair should be tie in a bun always.
👵No sticky bindi because if it falls down baby can put in mouth.
👵Once she enter she should wash feet and hands with water.
👵Keep baby clean throughout her working hours.
👵Use soft clothes and warm water to wipe out baby face, bump, tummy or anything.
No force feeding / sleeping
🍼Babysitters work is to handle baby not to put them on crib and make them sleep. You have to clear about this.
🍼Baby have strict schedule of eating and sleeping. Babysitter should follow that. If baby is not eating then there should be no force feeding to babies.
🍼Feed baby as the way baby mom feed. Do not use your own tactics. Make baby sit and then feed slowly.
🍼Do not set any new schedule. Stick to babies old sleep schedule.
No screen for baby
🤳🏼Some babysitter give screen to babies to get themselves free.
🤳Clear this point, no screen should be there for baby or to babysitter too.
🤳🏼Yes, if baby sleep, she can use her phone.
No harsh voice
😫Babysitter should not raise her volume while handling babies.
😌She always need to talk softly with babies.
😓Even if baby is giving hard time, she have to be patience and talk softly with baby.
Comfortable :
This is the last point but very important. Babysitter should be comfortable to you and to your babies. If her vibes give you any wrong implications you have to stop immediately and let her go.
Attentive n loving
💝Babysitter should be attentive. She should be quick and attentive to baby's need.
💝Babysitter should love babies. She should handle baby very carefully with love.
These are the basic things which you should have to check while hiring a babysitter. Ask this question and if she comfortable to it then only go ahed.
While there are Some FAQ :
Q.Which kind of babysitter you should hire ?
Ans : Babysitter should be woman. Yes, do not hire girl because they are less experience and have more arrogance issue.
Q. What should be the age ?
Ans : Babysitter age should be 30 + who have kids, grandkids. Do not hire very old babysitter too because she will get tired fast. So activeness is the most important factor. How quickly she can get up is the important thing.
Q. Experience is needed?
Ans: Yes. Experience should be mandatory. No matter work experience but at least she should have her own baby / grand baby experience.
Q.What quality you should look ?
Ans : Cleanliness is most important point. Attentive, no arrogance and no harsh voice these qualities you should look.
Q. How do you choose ?
Ans :While interviewing you should ask simple question. Whatever you want to ask as per your requirements. Question should be timing, money, leaves, holiday, etc.
Apart from this clear above mentioned things first. And if she agree then only go ahed.
If you still have a doubt then keep her for trial period say for one week. Then observe whether she is able to do it or not ? Always go with your gut feeling.
Q. How do you find more trustworthy?
Ans : It will come automatically. When we used to be with her. Even if in your absence baby is happy and content that means your babysitter is trustworthy.
But for that you too have to change your behavior. You have to treat her as a family person with boundaries. If you give the same respect and love your half of the problem get resolved.
Yes! We are paying money but they should also feel safe at our place. Keep your house atmosphere friendly to them.
I am greatful to had a nanny to my baby. She love my 3 children and Love me too. 😊We always treat her like a elderly family member.
I hope this post is helpful to you mummy. Share it with the needy one.
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