Memory Flies

Angha and Ravi look like they were made for each other.  They had been married for two years and had a beautiful life. Angha was a corporate employee while Ravi was a government official. Both love each other. Both had different work schedules but still they managed to take out the time for each other. They had date nights twice in a month whether it was a coffee date or dinner date, they followed the ritual every time. They were a happy couple.  But from the last 2 months Angha saw the difference in Ravi behaviour. He seems to be busy all weekend too. He barely had time for Angha. And whenever Angha asked him he said in a nasty voice that he is busy.  Angha accidentally saw Ravi's message which was" Good Morning Shona." at 5:30 am.  But she ignored it.  Meanwhile Ravi and Her common friends were advised Angha to pay attention to Ravi. He might have a girlfriend.  But again she ignored it. Just because she loves Ravi from the bottom of heart and never wanted to lose him.

SUPPORT SYSTEM THAT EVERY MOM NEEDS  We moms are always in a roller coaster. Whether it is every day school, Every day tiffin for Mr. Hubby, bath and feed to your little one, feeding the elder one in a family and...list will go on and on ...... Roller coaster ride.  We  all need our support system. Every mom should have at least one support system to PAUSE, REFRESH and to RESTART. But the question is how ? A support system is actually a person with whom you can relax, cry, laugh, travel, have fun and recharge yourself.  We have to find one person who brings joy to our face. 🥰 Why is this Support System required? In simple terms to maintain our mental health.  Yes. It is very important to take care of our mental health as we are catering to many services of mom, wife, daughter in law, chef, laundry woman, decorator, party organisers, nutritionist and many more. The more responsibility the more mental load.  And so we need our support system. To, 1) Reduce stress : Our support system he

REFLECTION 2023 and Goals for 2024 The last two three years I have been doing reflection for the previous year and it does really help me to evolve as a person, mother, wife for my family. So let's reflect on how our 2023 was. Family Gatherings  2023 started with small family getaways which was refreshing for us. Because due to pregnancy and postpartum our two years were so hectic that we didn't have a chance to socialize. The year started with family gatherings and off course lots of fun. Emotional changes :  2023 was also an emotional turmoil for me. My father' s demise. He struggled a lot. Still he managed to make video calls and talked with me. He had all his favourite meals. He played with my twins too for a very short period of time but he did it. 😞 He enjoyed all the cricket match with his phone calls. I admire his capabilities. We struggled to keep him alive and he was struggling to end his life. It was more painful to see him. And finally in May he left us.  I am