ADOPTION

Adoption means बाळ किंवा छोटे मूल दत्तक घेणे. या गोष्टीला सहसा कोणी तयार होत नाही. म्हणजे बरेच लोक घेतात दत्तक पण सामान्यपणे मराठी लोक तयार होत नाही दत्तक घेण्यासाठी.

माझ्या नातेवाईकांमध्ये आणि बऱ्याच फ्रेंड्सरेकल मधे सुध्दा मूल नसण्याचे प्रमाण जास्त आहे. पण तरीही ही लोक अनाथाश्रमातून मूल दत्तक घेण्यास तयार नसतात. कारण बरेच वेळा emotional असते आणि प्रॅक्टिकल नाहीत. मला खरच कळत नाही की का लोक दत्तक घ्यायला तयार नसतात? ते जर रक्ताचे कारण असेल तर मात्र ते विचित्र वाटते. आपल्या सगळ्यांचे रक्त लाल रंगाचे असते. आणि कोणत्याही तर्क मांडण्याआधी त्या बाळाचा काय दोष? हा सुद्धा विचार करायला हवा ना?

मी काही उदाहरण सांगते.

माझ्या पापांचे एक मित्र होते. त्यांना 13 वर्ष मूल नव्हते. नंतर एक बाळ झाले पण तेही जेमतेम 5 वर्ष जगले. पण या दाम्पत्यानि बाळ दत्तक घेतले नाही. घरची श्रीमंती सुध्दा होती. माझा मुद्दा एवढाच की एखाद्या बाळाचं आयुष्य छान असते.

माझी एक फ्रेंड सुध्दा आहे. तिच्या लग्नाला तर 20 वर्ष झाली पण एकदाही तिला मूल दत्तक घेण्याची इच्छा झाली नाही. मी बरेच वेळा suggestions दिले पण तिची कारणे हीच कोणाचे रक्तं असेल?

माणसाची नियत चांगली हवी आणि पुण्य करायला पण हिम्मत लागते. मला 3 मुली आहेत. जर फक्त एक मूल असते तर मी नक्कीच दत्तक घेणार होते.

Kristin हे एक इंस्टाग्राम चे account आहे. हि स्त्री मूळची अमेरिकन पण तिला स्वतःच्या 3 मुली असून पण तिने एका अपंग मुलीला दत्तक घेतले. ऑपरेशन करून तिला नवीन पाय बसवले आणि तिला एक Happy Life दिली. खरच खूप छान वाटतं ते बघून.

तुमचं काय मत आहे? जर घरची financial condition चांगली असेल तर दत्तक जरूर घ्यावे. ह्या मुलांना सुद्धा education and good Life जगण्याचा हक्क आहे.

Disclaimer: Each parent is unique and have different way of thinking. This is my opinion. 

But for the sake of Kids future if we parent do such good deeds it will definitely change someone's life.

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SUNSET FROM MY BALCONY

Writing is the only thing that keeps me happy. And it's almost been 8 to 9 months; I didn't open my Blogger dashboard. 

When I saw this #blogchatterhalfmarathon activity, I decided to participate. Just want to give it a try because I wanted to get back to my writing journey. And here I am completing my 9th post by using a prompt. Thank you, Blogchatter.

Prompt: Look out of the window. Which things fascinate you and why?

One of the most beautiful and fascinating sights from my balcony is SUNSET. It is filled with orange color. It paints the cloud almost in lightish orange, and I saw it every evening with my twin kiddos.

My twin toddlers are very curious. They are constantly asking me, "Ata andhar ka jhala?" Why is there a blackout?

So I have to show them this sunset. Sun is saying goodbye to us and going to his home to meet his mummy. Again in the morning he will come to say good morning to us. And so watching sunset daily is an interesting activity for us as a family.

My favorite evening spot is sitting on the balcony with a cup of tea and a sunset. Many times I tried to capture the scenes, but it didn't capture the way we saw it.

I saw the sunrise at Kanyakumari, and that was blissful. Now I am blessed to watch the sunset daily right in front of me. But this time watching the sunset with the twin kiddos' perspective is different and vibrant.

I am really greatful for this. 

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Have you watched the sunset patiently? Do you like to watch sunrise or sunset?

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GREY HAIR

Grey hair is one of the beauty that we achieve after a certain age. My sister had grey hair when she was in 8th grade, and then she used to keep it like that only. After marriage she started to color it. I am having my first grey hair after crossing age 35. And feel yeaaa...a new beginning will start now.

Anyways, the topic of the blog post is how do you feel having grey hair?Actually, I don't feel weird. Yes, there are some people, friends, who stare at your grey hair and ask constantly, "You don't dye?"

I am lazy, or you can say I don't feel like dyeing it. Unless it is a marriage ceremony or any other family program. Mr. Husband and every elder one in my family called me and asked to dye my hair. And without opposing, I choose to die. Because there is no point in debating.

I love my grey hair too. It is a sign of a grown and mature person. 🤫 (Not all grown-ups are mature.)

But my in-law's, my father and mostly elderly people in my family all used to dye hair in a whole black patch. And I feel that weird. Okay. When you dye your hair, you look young, and your face structure glows. Agreed.

But,

Still, I don't feel like dying. I kept it as is.

I am a busy mom, and my hands are always full. But I like my grey hair. And also I like the way it looks. I am accepting the fact of my body. And I feel I look beautiful too.

So now tell me, do you like your grey hair? How do you feel it?

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जावई : अवघड जागेचे दुखणे

 जावई : अवघड जागेचे दुखणे 😆

ही म्हण मला आता समजायला लागली. खरंच ना, जावई हा प्राणी इतका विचित्र का असतो ?

मला तीन मुली आहेत तर स्वाभाविकच मला जावई असणार, hope की ते चांगले असतील ( means good human being) 🤞

बरं, या टॉपिक वर लिहायचा मुद्दा म्हणजे जावई या प्राण्याबद्दल असणारे कोडे. फ्रेंड circle आणि घरच्या siblings ना बघून हा लेख लिहिते. कदचित जावई हा प्राणी या प्रश्नांचे उत्तर देइल. नाहीं मुळात मला, उत्तरे नकोच आहेत पण एक प्रयत्न त्यांची मानसिकता सुधारण्याचा.

बरं, जावई या प्राण्याला इगो असा भयंकर असतो, का बरे? जॉब, फॅमिली, social status ani पैसा ! अरे हे सगळे बघूनच तर आमच्या आई वडिलांनी आमचे लग्न तुमच्यासोबत लावले. ते नसते तर लग्न झालेच नसते. हि गोष्ट तुम्ही लोक का विसरतात?

नवीन लग्न झालेल्या मुलीचा specially जावयाचा पाहुणचार तर खूपच भारी असतो. कारण parent's ना आपल्या मुलीची काळजी असते म्हणून.

यानंतर ही बरेच वेळा काळजीपोटी, आणि तिचा संसार टिकावा यासाठी तिचे आई वडील किती तरी गोष्टी डोळ्याआड करतात. इग्नोर करतात. पण खरंच या गोष्टीचा जावई या प्राण्याला अंदाज तरी असतो का ?

जावई हा प्राणी कसा आहे हे actually baby झाल्यानंतर कळते. तो पर्यंत सगळं छान असते. पण जेव्हा मूल जन्माला येते तेव्हा मात्र आई आणि बाबा या दोघांचा खरा स्वभाव कळतो. आणि सगळ्यात महत्वाची गोष्ट म्हणजे तुम्हाला तुमच्या आई वडिलांनी कसे संस्कार दिले हे ही दिसून येते.

पाहिजे तसे घालून पाडून बोलणे, घर सोडून जा, शिवीगाळ करणे, हात उचलणे, स्वतः बायकोला पोसतो याची जाणीव करून देणे आणि बऱ्याच गोष्ठी समोर येतात. मुळात डोमेस्टिक violence सुरू होतो. अगदी दोघे नवरा बायको वर्किंग असले तरीही.

का ?

काय गरज पडते?

एकदा इगो बाजूला ठेवून नीट बोलून बघावे.

काय गरज पडते मोठ्या माणसानं या सगळया गोष्टीत सहभागी करायची? आणि मुळात divorce हे हत्यार जावई या प्राण्याचे आई वडील का वापरतात?

या सगळया गोष्टी अजूनही समजत नाही. प्रत्येक बायको या सगळया त्रासातून जाते. बायको तुमची, तुमच्या मुलांची आई तरीही इतक्या लेवल पर्यंत नाते का जाते?

खरंच जर जावई प्राणी हे वाचत असेल तर नक्कीच सांगा, का तुम्ही असे वागता?

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DIWALI FARAL AT EVERY STAGE OF LIFE

दिवालीचा फराळ

आपल्या लहानपणीच्या खूप आठवणी आहेत या दिवाळीच्या फराळाच्या, नाहीं का?

मला तर आठवते आम्ही सगळे फॅमिली मेंबर एकत्र बसून रात्र भर फराळ बनवायचो. करंजी, शंकरपाळी, लाडू, शेव, चकली, चिवडा, आणि अनारसे हे आमचे ठरलेले फराळाचे पदार्थ. रात्रीचे दोन तीन वाजेपर्यंत सगळे मिळून डबा भर फराळ बनवायचो. आणि तो ही किलोभर!

ही अशी दिवाळी माझे लग्न होईपर्यंत मी enjoy केली. लग्नानंतर नवीन घरात मला तरी बऱ्याच अपेक्षा होत्या. पण सासूबाई फक्त आजूबाजूला वाटण्यासाठीच बनवण्याच्या आणि त्याही माझ्या घरासारख्या टेस्टी नाही. 😶 आपल्या जिभेला एक चव लागली तर तीच रेंगाळत राहते, नाही का?

आणि त्यात इथल्या लोकांना खाणे माहितच नाही. आमच्याघरी तरी फराळ संपेपर्यंत तोच breakfast असायचा. यांच्या घरी अगदी दिवाळीच्या दिवशी सुद्धा चहा चपाती लागते. 😐😑 ते सगळे मला अजीब वाटले पण मी काहीच बोलली नाही. माझ्या मते या घरात मी एकमेव फराळ खाणार खादाड प्राणी होते.

असो, जेव्हा मी माझ्या घरी शिफ्ट झाले तेव्हा मात्र मला एकटीला फराळ बनवायला लागला होता. कारण नवरा म्हणजे अजीब प्राणी, त्याला काहीच बनवता येत नव्हते or else त्याला help नसेल करायची.

पंपांचे फोनवर फोन नुसते, झाली का तयारी? करणार ना फराळ? Bla....bla...bla...

मग काय You Tube matcehi जय, तसा फराळ मी कधीच एकटीने बनवाल नव्हता. नेहमी मी आईला हेल्प करायची त्यामुळे मोजमाप काहीच माहित नव्हते.

आणि पहिल्या वेळी मी करंजी बनवली खूप छान झाली. अगदी माझी मम्मी बनवायची तशीच. बस मग तर काय मी हवेतच उडत होते. You Tube बघून बघून शंकरपाळी, चिवडा आणि बिस्कीट बनवले. आणि माझ्या पप्पांना सुद्धा खूप आवडले.

लास्ट चार वर्षापासून तर मी फराळ बनवला नाही. ट्वीन pregnency आणि नंतर बाळंतपण आणि आता या दोघी काही करून देतील तर ना,

पण सण खूप चांगल्या प्रकारे मी साजरा करते. मुलांना पण सणसूद कळले पाहिजे की नको. तर मला तर खूपच हौस!

मी खूपच नशीबवान ☺️ या वर्षी मला अगदी घरच्यासारखा फराळ मिळाला. गरोदरपनात househelp होती. I am greatful for her🫰

आणि तिनेच या वर्षी सगळा फराळ बनवून दिला. Yummy 😋

एकच खंत ती म्हणजे आम्ही लहानपणी जसे डबे उघडून दिवसभर फराळ खायचो तसे माझी लेकरे खात नाही 😑 त्यांच्यासाठी खास बनवलं आणि दोन दिवसातच त्यांना कंटाळा आला.

तर असा हा फराळाचा प्रवास. कसा वाटला तुम्हाला? तुमचा कसा आहे दिवाळीचा फराळाचा प्रवास? कमेंट box सांगा.

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KINDNESS

Nowadays people forget how to become kind or how to practice kindness. We need kindness from our family and relatives only. We didn't expect it from unknown people. But these families or our own relatives are habitual to criticize us in many ways. After crossing 40, I have seen much trauma in my life and realize why people around us can't be kind. To become available or to be kind doesn't need money. But still people forget the past and become less emotional and show their real color.

I am sharing a few things that may be relatable to you too.

Scene 1:

My mother was admitted for heart surgery at the end of lockdown. And I was the one who stayed with her throughouther admitted period. Because females need to stay in the female ward, and I am the only female in my family who can stay there continuously. I have a little sister who is married and staying in the same area where my mother stays. But her husband never allowed her to help me.

Kindness—I am talking about the kindness here. I don't want to dig up the reasons, but I just wanted to know, where is her kindness? Why does she need permission from her husband? Why did her husband not allow her to have a hospital stay? I also have a family, and my husband is also working. At that time her husband was at home—jobless. But still these people can't help us by being available whenever we require.

Scene 2:

In the year 2015 my father was on an oxygen cylinder. His lungs were damaged, and he can't breathe oxygen. So the doctor advised him to have an oxygen cylinder as much as he can. At that time a cylinder cost INR 750 to 1000, and one cylinder works only for 4 hours. We need money, and we have rich relatives who became rich due to my father only. Their job was saved by my father. I just wanted to say this is the time where they can show gratitude. None of them offer any money. We never asked money from any of them. But again, where is the kindness?

Scene No. 3

Recently my aunt was admitted to the hospital for gallbladder problems. He has only one son—married with kids. Due to exam time, his wife can't stay in the hospital. And his cousin sister stays nearby to his house. He asked her to stay in the hospital. And she stayed too. She belongs to a rich family, but still he has to pay for her auto and food. That poor boy already had lots of expenses, but still he managed to pay.

Where is the kindness?

These and many more situations are there where we need help from our family members and relatives, but I don't understand why they don't want to help.

CONCLUSION: 

खरंच माणुसकी हरवत चालली की अशा माणसांना माणुसकी नसतेच मुळी. 🥺 तुम्ही गेला असालच ना या सारख्या गोष्टीतून. तुमचा अनुभव सांगा.

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Tell us your experience where you expect kindness and you face brutality. 

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OUR DIWALI 2025

Diwali 2025 is the special one because my little twins are now 3.5 years old, old enough to understand what the festival is and which rituals we follow. This year I was quite excited and happy for the festival. I remembered when I was unmarried my shopping never finished till the last day, but after becoming a mother, it changed the whole perspective. Shopping has shifted for my kiddos only. I barely think about my clothing or accessories but am ready to search for cute things for my twins and the elder one.

1.SHOPPING FUN  : 

After 3 years this Diwali I shopped with my daughter, and after roaming for 2 hours, I was able to get 3 dresses. Out of which I am not at all satisfied, but still I purchased it. So what was the fun thing?

In my area, near my building, there was a lady who put up a stall for ladies' dresses and kids' frocks. I was watching her from my balcony daily, and on the day of Laxmi pujan, I went there to see if I could get any traditional frock for my Sia. And bingo, I got the best one, which is in my budget. I was too surprised and felt foolish. Instead of roaming in the outside area where I pay more than the necessary amount, I should visit this shop first. So this was one of the fun things I will remember always. Does this happen with you?

2. RAIN : Diwali 2025 is a rainy Diwali. On Laxmi Pujan there was a thunderstorm and rain. All the rangoli, lanterns, Akashkandil, diya, flowers, and the open market with all the festival things got wet. 🥺 Still, kids enjoyed their firecrackers. 🧨

3. RANGOLI :  This Diwali I want to have flower rangoli, and I ordered 1/2 kg of flowers. But rain ruined everything. On that day we didn't have lights, and with air and rain, every rangoli was washed off. 😕After 6:30 I drew rangoli, which was funny. I was too tired and in a blackout; I drew some flowers and rangoli too.

4. DIYA :  Laxmipujan, there was no light, and finally we lamped out so many diyas. We also have some candles and some diyas.

5. LAXMIPUJAN IN BLACKOUT : 

There was no sign of lights until 8 pm. Then I finally make my kids ready. Put on all the beautiful dresses and bangles and put on a little bit of makeup. I wore only a sari, and with my bun, we did puja.

We didn't take a single picture of this Diwali 2025. 🥺

CONCLUSION : 

Only one happy ending: the daughter went with her father downtown and enjoyed firecrackers. 🧨 🧨 🧨This way we celebrate our Diwali 2025 in blackout.

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What are fun things you remember of this diwali?

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SIYA TALE - STORY TIME

सिया ला पुस्तके खुप आवडतात. माझ्या जुळ्या मुली चार महिन्यांच्या असल्यापासून मी पुस्तकं वाचते. Read aloud. दोघींना खुप आवडतात त्यातली रंगीबेरंगी चित्रे, अक्षरे, आणि गोष्टी सुद्धा. 

आपण parents जसे मूलांना मोल्ड करू तसे मुले ग्रो होतात. मला आश्चर्य नाही वाटत जेव्हा माझी सिया मला पुस्तकं वाचून दाखवते. 

तिचे तसे सगळीच पुस्तकं आवडती आहेत. पुस्तकाची हलत बघून कळलेच असेल किती पुस्तकं वाचतो आम्ही. आता ती फक्तं अडीच वर्षाची आहे पण तिला पुस्तकं वाचायला आणि गोष्टी सांगायला खुप आवडते. 

Peppa pig हे आमचे फेवरेट पुस्तकं. 1000 वेळा तरी माझे वाचून झाले असेल. ना, मी कधीच कंटाळत नाही तेच तेच पुस्तकं वाचायला. उलट नवीन प्रकारे तिची स्टोरी सांगायचं प्रयत्न करत असते. आणि त्याचा परिणाम माझ्या मुलींना स्टोरी आणि त्याचा आशय सुद्धा कळतो. तर बघा आता सिया ही पेपा पिग चि स्टोरी कशी वाचते आणि कशी सांगते तिच्या मम्मीला. 

मम्मी डॅडी पेग चे ग्लासेस हरवले. तो पेपर वाचतो. 

जॉर्ज आणि पेपा टीव्ही बघतात.

Sometimes she speak english...  Yaa mummy , Peppa is looking for daddys glasses. 

She goes upstairs.

पेपा वर चालली.

पेपा बाथरूम मधे शोधते.

आणि मग आम्ही फक्तं चित्रे बघतो आणि पाने टर्न करतो. 

शेवटी शेवटच्या पानावर आल्यावर,

Wowo mummy डॅडी पेग ला ग्लासेस मिळाले.

मी विचारते कुठे होते त्याचे 🤓 ग्लासेस?

सोफ्यावर होते मम्मा,

डॅडी पेग त्यावर बसला होता.

आणि मग ती मला हायफाय देते. 

मग मी पुन्हा विचारते कसे मिळाले ग्लासेस?

पेपा ने शोधले सगळीकडे.

मी विचारते कुठे कुठे शोधले?

पेपा बेडरुम मधे जाते,

पिलो खाली बघते,

But glasses was noth there.

मग ती bathtub मधे बघते,

But glasses was not there,

मग डॅडी पेग सोफ्यावरून उठतो 

आणि ग्लासेस तिथे असतात.

आणि मग सिया लास्ट page turn करते आणि बोलते 

THE END

आणि आमची स्टोरी संपते. 

तुम्ही वाचता का तुमच्या बेबी सोबत स्टोरी? तुमच्या बेबीना स्टोरी आवडतात का?

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MY FAVOURITE PEOPLE

Hello and welcome to my blog.  

When the Blogchatter asked me this question, TELL US ABOUT YOUR FAVOURITE PEOPLE" these people came in front of my eyes without giving any stress to my mind. Our favourite people are always in our hearts. Right!

Everyone has their favourite person in their life with whom they can share anything and feel relaxed and happy. Very few people have such places in their life. These are precious ones, hold and preserve them.

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I am a very introverted person. I generally don't make friends because I can feel the vibes. I love to have a simple life. I don't like drama and gossiping. So I prefer to stay away from such people. I love my peace and prefer being alone rather than having such a dramatic person around me. 

MY FAVOURITE PEOPLE IN MY LIFE ARE  My father, my daughter Saee, and my friend Anu.

MY FATHER :

My father was my friend. I realized how much he loved me when I got married. He was the person who talked with me daily on a phone call. He wanted to know what I ate. What I made? Which movie did I watch? Which book was I reading? And overall, he was trying to find out everything was okay in my life. And I never gave him any kind of trouble or stress. Though I shared every tiny thing with him. But I made sure if there was any problem I handled it by myself. For me, he should be happy and stress-free. 

MY DAUGHTERS : 

I have toddler twins girl and an older one. These girls are very precious to me. My elder one is my best friend for a lifetime. She is 11 years old but taught me lots of things. She helped me to identify my strength and my patience. I transformed fully after becoming a mother. From short-tempered, impatient girls, I became a patient mother who always smiled. 

She loves to share everything, and I love to tease her, make her laugh, make her cry 😁 and teach her to be the best version in difficult situations. In fact she is my teacher who teaches me lots of things and I am also growing with her as a parent. 

MY FRIEND ANU :

She is my therapist. Whenever I need her, she is always there. She is the one who is always with me in every stage of my life. I wish everyone would have such a friend. 

Apart from these real people, there are some fictional and social media characters who are my favourites. 

SUSHMITA SEN: 

She is one of my favourite people. Her journey from Miss Universe to the independent woman is incredible. She is an inspiration. I love her Arya character. The way she portrays is unbelievable. I like the way she is in her real life, her ideologies and her confidence.

YOON SERI: The character from Crash Landing on You : 

Yoon Seri is an Independent businesswoman in this series. Seri is a sensitive person.  The bud blossomed in the mud and spread her kindness to all people. Inspiring the way she fought with her life constantly and still lived as a kind and good human being. I like the way she loves Jeong. The respect, understanding and care for her boyfriend is incredible.

MIN - HYUK: Male Character from Strong Girl Bong Soon 

I love the way he represents Mr Min. Handsome, mature, and the same way childish. Being alone all his life, he created his world. I love his way of romance and the way he loves Bong Soon. He has been alone since his childhood until he became a successful businessman and a kind-hearted person. His life is inspiring.

JUI AND SAKET  from Ani Kay Havay Series :

These two fictional characters I love love them a lot. Jui and Saket are replicas of the actual husband and wife. The characters are well-written and performed by both of them naturally. I was addicted to these series. Each episode is filled with lots of fun and love. I love Saket; he is so adorable and innocence 

HILLARY from Old World Home 

I watched her channel from 2010. I love her decor ideas. Low-budget and thrifty Mommy, she is the one who simplified life and took care of family and home. Nowadays, there are lots of YouTubers showing the same content, but she was the pioneer of the home content. Original and authentic. I love to watch the way she lives her life, simple and real. One thing I adore is that she kept her life private. Her kids and not showing every detail. She is maintaining boundaries while keeping her kids safe. 

 

 

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These are the list of my favourite people. From my family to the screen. Yes, I do like these fictional characters a lot. This is the first time I am writing about them in my blog. I love these people. They inspire me and give me the push to carry on.

Question of the day 

Do you like fictional characters? Did you get inspired by them? 

 

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SIYA TALE - A PHONE CALL

Hello, and welcome. Today post I am sharing Siya's phone call 😊 (My Little dolls talk)

हॅलो, हा,....

असा सियाचा कॉल सुरू होतो. सिया फक्त अडीच वर्षाची आहे पण चटरबॉक्स आहे ती.

मम्मीचा फोन आला की नुसती तिची बडबड चालू होते. मी या खोलीतून त्या खोलीत जात असते पण माझी लेक माझ्यामागे सतत फिरत असते. फोन वर कोणीही असो तिला फक्त बोलायचे असते. ती कोणाला ओळखत नाही पण तरीही तीला हॅलो करुन फोनवर गप्पा मारायच्या असतात. 

शेवटी मला काही बोलता येत नाही तर मी फोन देते तिच्या हातात. अगदी कानाला फोन लावून मोठ्या लोकांसारखा तिचा फोन कॉल चालू होतो. बरं अडीच वर्षाची ही छोटी काय बोलत असेल?

हॅलो,

मी बोलते,

सिया बोलते,

पप्पा ऑफिस गेला ( गेला हा शब्द elongated स्वरात असतो) 

इरा टॉईज खेळते.

दिदी नुसता टीव्ही बघते. 

हे खेळते, बघते स्वर elongated असतात.

बरं पलीकडून कोणी काय विचारले तर ही आपली काय, काय करत असते. 

आणि मग पुन्हा तिचे सुरू होते,

सिया फोनवर बोलते.

पप्पा ऑफिस गेला.

मम्मी जेवण बनवते.

सिया फोनवर बोलते.

दिदी मोबाईल बघते.

आणि जर चुकून तिचा पप्पा घरी असेल तर 

पप्पा नुसता मोबाईल बघतो.

पप्पा snoring करतो.

पप्पा झोपतो.

आणि bla..bla...bla...

तर असे आमचे phonecall होतात. मला तर कोणाशी काही बोलता येत नाही आणि ही बया सगळे सांगत बसते. 

तुमचेही छोटी डॉल असेच करते का? 

कमेंट बॉक्स मधे सांगा.

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WHAT MAKES YOU CONTENT CREATORS DESTINY OR HARD WORK?

 

 

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Hello and welcome to my blog. 

WHAT MAKES YOU CONTENT CREATORS, DESTINY OR HARD WORK?

I have always had this question on my mind. Because I never dreamt of content creators. My family members and friends teased me when I started to write. They always asked me, How do you write? How did you learn?

So in today's post, I am sharing my thoughts and want to give answers to those who love my writing and who still tease me. I appreciate both of them and I am GREATFUL.

 

When I was in X grade, my dream was to become a doctor. But destiny has its own plan, and still, I wonder what it is actually? 

I have a very tough time with my destiny. Every time I thought I achieved my dream, destiny took it away. So I didn't follow any dreams, and you must be thinking I gave up. 

Never.

In fact, I decided to swim as per the flow. Without getting stressed about why I was not getting any success, I started to appreciate what life was giving me. It is very hard, but yes, it is life. It is DESTINY!

 

Content creator, NO, I am a writer. Content creator is the vast world. It is DESTINY, which pushed me towards writing. Otherwise, writing and I do not have any connection until I become a mother. 

In my motherhood journey, I sacrificed my career, my profession, and my identity too. Writing found me, and I started to scribble down my thoughts as a mother. With lots of grammatical errors and by reading many professional bloggers, I thought writing was not my cup of tea. I felt I was illiterate in front of them. And I should not write. So I stopped writing for 2 years. But they said destiny decided what do you do? Where you will go? The writer inside me was awake, and in lockdown I started to write again. 

 

I am a self-taught blogger. My inspiration was Brittany, a mom blogger from Carolina. I read lots of her blogs, and she inspired me a lot. I love to read her blogs, and I found that I can write too. And my blogging journey started. 

I took lots of time to find out about the blogging community, but never mind. After all, it is destiny that decides the time and success too. Today my blog is listed in Indian Top Blogs, and that is my success, my dream! 😊

 

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According to me, the major part is DESTINY and, of course, the HARD WORK  that makes me a content creator. Without destiny, I never have found this route, but with hard work, my journey is fruitful. There are lots of things that I wanted to do. Let's see how destiny will guide me while I am ready for the hard work. 

 

Question of the day 

What is your part, destiny or hard work? Do you always want to be what you are today? 

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