RULES FOR VISITING NEW BORN BABY

Hi, मी मोठी आई झाले. 🤩

Yes, I became a big mumma. My brother-in-law had a baby on Diwali, and we all are very happy. I encountered some rules in the hospital. This is my fifth time prescribing these rules for visitors. Actually, Mummy and Daddy. 

Because every visitor is so excited, and everyone wants to touch the baby, and I don't like it because it is practically not hygienic. And that's why I am writing this blog post. 

Rules you have to follow when you meet a new baby in the hospital or at home. 

RULES FOR VISITING NEW BORN 

1. WASH HAND :  Whenever you enter the hospital, use sanitizer or soap to clean your hands. If you are visiting at home, make sure you wash your hands and feet properly. 

2. Do not take the baby in your hand: A newbornbaby is delicate, and I strictly said no if anyone wants to take the baby in hand. It is not necessary. You can watch it by keeping some distance and giving your love and blessings to the baby.

3) NO KISS : Even if you bring a newborn home, do not allow anyone to kiss the baby except Mummy and Daddy. No grandfather or grandmother should kiss the baby. There is more chance of getting an infection. 

3) NO PICTURE CLICK : When you visit the baby in the hospital or at home, please do not click the picture. Ask for the picture from the parents if they take it. 

4) Stay away if you are sick: If you are sick or having any kind of cough and cold, then please avoid visiting the newborn baby. 

5) SHORT VISITING TIME : visiting time should be short, 15 minutes only. Because there are lots of people who want to visit the hospital and bring lots of stuff. So parents request everyone to have short visiting times so that Mumma and baby do not get tired.

6) NO STRONG PERFUME:  A newborn baby is delicate, so avoid wearing strong perfume. 

7) NO LOUD SPEAKING IN THE HOSPITAL : When relatives visit, they start talking in such a loud voice because they are extremely happy, and so they forget that the mother needs peace. Please keep your talks short and in a low voice.

8) NO ADVICE :  New parents are overwhelmed, so don't give tons of advice. Just one or two advice is okay rest of the things they manage. If they asked, then only give your advice; otherwise, don't spread your gyan. 

9 ) NO WHAT'S UP STATUS : Some people are so hurry to display everything on social media. You don't need to post it on WhatsApp story or on nay other social media. Because it is not your baby. So respect the parents privacy maintain your boundaries.

10 ) NO COMMENTS FOR BABY :  Every new born baby is unique and beautiful. Do not make any comments like he is so black, so white or anything. You don't need to make any good or bad comment for the baby.

CONCLUSION : 

I strongly followed these rules and get most hate from visitors. But I don't care because at the end it is only you and your baby. No one is going to come to help you when your baby get sick or even in your postpartum period. So stick to this rules and have a healthy baby. 

Question for the day 

What kind of rules you follow when you become a mommy ? 

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मम्मा ऐक ना!

Hello and welcome to my blog. Parenting is one of the toughest jobs ever, in which you have no income and you have to devote your mind, body, and money too. 😬 Every kid is unique, and so is the parenting too. I believe there is something to learn from each kid.

Here I am going to share what I learned from my kid. After becoming a parent, I realized parenting is the journey where you constantly learn from your kid and grow as human beings. My 11 years of parenting experience reveal many hidden parts of my strength.

I have my twins, and they are 3 years old. The elder one is the chatterbox who is constantly talking, and I love this phase where she learns new words and language and tries to interact with us like elders.

The constant phrase she used, "मम्मा ऐक ना," means Mumma, listen please.

And I put everything off, like screens, books, or my household chores, and listen to whatever she is going to talk with me about.

I even stopped talking with my older one, and we both listened to her tiny talk. 😄 Most of the time she repeats what she heard from her sisters' talk. And we listen and try to reciprocate.

So here I learned your kids want you to listen. Though they may sound funny, you have to listen. And if you want your child to listen to you, then start listening to them first.

Question of the day

What did you learn from your kid? Have you listened to them?

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This post is a part of Blogchatter Half Marathon 2025 

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