BEST FRIENDSHIP K - DRAMA: THIRTY NINE

Hello, Happy Friday, 

Any K drama fans here? I am addicted to K drama but I am very choosy on selecting it. One of my favourites is Thirty-Nine - Best Friendship Korean drama. It is filled with girls' friendship, love, small disputes, emotions and life. This drama is a realistic picture of a lifetime friendship.

We all have friends but how many of them remain in our lifetime? Maybe one or two. Right,  because as we grow older our circle becomes smaller. This is true and proven in this series. 

ABOUT DRAMA   : 

Thirty-Nine is a k drama that features the life of 3 female friends who are about to turn 40. The trio shares life, happiness, love and pain. They are in solidarity in support of each other. They had been friends since the age of 18 and knew each other like the back of their hands.

One of them is diagnosed as stage 4 pancreatic Cancer and then the life of this trio has changed drastically. Instead of looking back, they decided to do things which they wanted to do and that makes them happy. Trio decides to concentrate on the present.

ABOUT CHARACTER :

The story revolves around three female friends: Cha Mi Jo, Jeong Chang Young and Jang Jo Hee.

Cha mi Jo ( Son Ye -jin) 

is a warm character. She belongs to a wealthy family and runs a derma clinic with her sister. Later she found that she was adopted by this family which broke her heart and she tried to find out the real mother. Her journey is emotional and heartbreaking.  

Jeong Chang Young ( Jeon  Mi-do) 

She is the main character of this series. She wanted to be an actress but she turned into an acting coach. Her parents own Jeong's kitchen in Yangpyeong. She is quite a straightforward person but sincere towards her family and friends. 

Jang Jo Hee ( Kim Ji-hun) 

is a cosmetic manager at the department store. She lives with her mother and has a timid persona but is sweet and loveable. She always becomes a sandwich in two of them. She is sensitive so both friends try to keep her away from the unwanted things. 

How do you feel when you get to know your friend is about to die within a few months? This trio's journey is inspiring. 

From a simple story of friendship, they explored their growth together and became the best part of each other. The story is a bit emotional but highlights many things. Friendship is the base of the series and it does bring tears to your eyes. When I watched the last episode it took me a week to move on. 

WHY DO I LIKE THIS DRAMA? 

The emotions, culture and respect for each other are best shown in the K drama - the speciality of the drama. Some moments of this trio's friendship shine like a diamond. The way they supported and cheered for one another was terrific. We can feel the love among themselves.

Some of the moments surprised you like

Mi Jo answered “friend” to Seon Woo’s question of what she liked at the age of 29. 

Jang Hee wanted to open a shop and when she won the lottery instead of using it for herself she gave that luck to Chan Young. 

Mi Jo gave up on her trip to the States to take care of her sick friend.

MY FAVOURITE SCENES OF THE DRAMA: 

# Jeong knows she will die soon. Her fears when she talks with Cha - what will happen after my death? What will be my funeral? Will people cry for me? These scenes give me goosebumps. 

# Jeong gives a list of her friends which she wants to have at her funeral. Cha actually invited all of them when she was alive. This scene touched my heart and I teared up. Being a best friend she fulfilled her wish in her presence only.  And she is happy to leave this world. 

# Being adopted is heartbreaking. Every adopted kid wants to find real parents and why they left them. But the truth is it's not the kid's choice to be left and abandoned. Everything ends when Cha realizes that her adopted parents are the real family which provides her love and happiness. Accepting these facts makes her life easier rather than finding out the truth.

# After realising that our friend was living for a few days Cha and Joo were constantly with her. Two of them are staying with her at home to take care of her by adjusting their jobs. They had a night out, food and lots of girl's fun. The way Cha and Jang tried to be happy in front of her and cheer up while struggling inside to lose her is painful. 

#Finally three of them got their boyfriends in thirty-nine. Exactly the way they wanted. They enjoyed the food, snow and karaoke together. 

# Fear of death is scary.  When you know you are going to die after some days how will you feel?  

Jeong visited the funeral and tried to see herself in that position. She was scared of what would happen to her body when she died. Her acting is so natural that you even flow with the pain and emotions. 

# After her death these two friends with their boyfriends and with Jeong's boyfriends meet each other frequently. They used to meet her parents to celebrate birthdays every year and take care of them. Life must go on but both never forget her.

Have you really seen such a friendship?

MY FAVOURITE QUOTES/ DIAlOGUE :

Everyone dies but I don't know what will happen to me once I die and I think that's what scares me - Chanyoung 

This is about the things that won’t come back. This is about our moments.” – Chanyoung

Let’s live in the present.” – Kim Seonu

Will be able to muster up strength before the uneasiness turns into fear?” – Cha Mijo

Time passes by slowly when you’re lying on a hospital bed. It makes you think of things.” – Chanyoung

Some days were clear and sunny, while some days were very overcast.” – Cha Mijo

When you’re overwhelmingly grateful, you find it so hard to express your gratitude.” – Chanyoung

Life is so capricious.” – Cha Mijo

That was our choice. To live like there’s no tomorrow. Like there’s no sadness. That’s how we decided to spend each day.” – Cha Mijo

WRAP UP : 

It is hard to find real friends. Life is too short. Enjoy every moment of life the way it is. Life is filled with full of happiness when you have true and loving friends. A true friend always cares for you and is always available for you. If you have such friends then I will say you are lucky. Be with them no matter what happens, other relations may not live longer but friendships stay forever. 

Available on: Netflix 

Number of Episodes: 12

PS: All pictures are from Pintrest

Question of the day.

Do you like K Drama? Do you like my post? Have you watched Thirty-Nine? 

This post is a part of ‘Friend Indeed Blog Hop’ hosted by Manali Desai and Sukaina Majeed

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5 THINGS TO BE LEARNED FROM QUEEN

Hello and happy Saturday! 

One of my favorite and most successful Bollywood films is Queen. It is the story of a Punjabi middle-class girl, Rani, who is left heartbroken. Her fiance calls off the wedding right after her mehendi ceremony. Then she decided to go on a honeymoon alone in Paris. It is the journey of self-love and self-growth of Queen, aka Rani.

                          

After watching this movie, every girl should learn these five things. I was happy to see her happy with her new self-discovery. 

 

PLOT OF THE MOVIE:

RANI is a naive girl who grew up in a stereotypical family. She is followed everywhere by her brother, who is smaller than her. She can't make decisions on her own. For everything, she had to ask her parents. 

 

Vijay, her fiancé, convinced her to have dinner with him. He is the one who has followed her since college. And suddenly, he calls off the wedding right after the mehendi ceremony. Then she decided to have a solo honeymoon, picked up her bags, and explored the bad world.

 

After watching this film, I can relate to so many things. Sometimes I ask myself, Will I be able to travel solo? Do I have the courage to change my life by myself? Do we really need a man in our lives? Though I am both a mom and a woman, some questions are always there. 

 

5 THINGS TO BE  LEARNED FROM QUEEN 

1. DON'T BE AFRAID TO STEP OUT OF COMFORT ZONE : 

 

After breaking her marriage, Rani decided to travel to Paris for Solo Honeymoon. The girl never wandered alone in her neighborhood, but she wanted to travel to Italy all by herself. 

 

And she did it very well. The first step was to get out of the comfort zone. She found many difficulties, but she learned many things during this journey.

 

2 SOLO TRAVEL ADVENTURES 

 

Yes, solo travel is an adventure. I am still not able to make up my mind about solo travel. Solo travel teaches you lots of things. Traveling to unknown places, meeting different kinds of people, learning about new cultures, and collecting various experiences all contribute to your personal growth. It changed our perspective on life, which transformed our personalities. 

 

3. THE FREEDOM 

Freedom is what all women want! Since our childhood, then entering adulthood, and after getting married, even after becoming mothers, our freedom has always been locked by someone. 

 

This movie taught me that you should experience freedom once in a life may be for short period. Freedom means you can do what you want to do. You can live the life of who you are and not pretend. 

Freedom makes you strong, independent, and brave. Freedom makes you free from a constantly nagging world. You can learn many things from your mistakes, and that will be your own growth experience. 

 

4. BE FIRM IN YOUR DECISION:

When Vijay understood that Rani went on solo, Honeymoon tried to contact her. Try to persuade her to be with him. He forced her to leave her friends and be with him, but Rani was firm on her decision. Without giving any explanation, she chose to be by herself.

 

We should learn to be firm in our decisions. No matter what the situation is, we should always respect our decision and try to be firm on it. 

 

5. BE THE BEST VERSION OF YOURSELF : 

When she returned her engagement ring and left Vijay, that was one of the most beautiful scenes of the movie. I can feel her happiness. It shows a girl doesn't require a man to be happy. She has enough for her happiness. 

Through her solo honeymoon journey, Rani evolved and found the new version of herself, which was a happy girl. The journey of self-discovery is tremendous. 

 

We always have to be ourselves. Kick out the judgment of society and be the best version of yourself. 

 

WRAP UP : 

The movie's plot revolves around self-discovery and self-growth. There are many things that we women can learn from this movie. Queen teaches you that the world is going to be the way it is. After all, it is your choice. What we experienced and learned It added to our self-growth. 

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FRIDAY SPECIAL PAAV BHAJI #I

Hello and welcome to my blog. Happy Sunday guys. How was your weekend? Our was slow. Friday special is a series where I am going to share special recipes I made for dinner. Sometimes we do take away food but most of the time I prepare at home. Healthy and clean eating is the goal. 

Friday is a lazy day. But I make sure to eat something new, easy and tempting. Apart from dal rice. On this Friday we had Paav Bhaji. 

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WHAT IS PAAV BHAJI?

Paav bhaji is one of Mumbai's famous street foods. It is popular all over India. It was a quick meal option for textile workers in Mumbai. The literal meaning of Paav means bread roll and bhaji means gravy of mixed vegetables. Paav bhaji is the Marathi name as dish was born in Mumbai. 

Bhaji - the main attraction of the dish - the gravy of mixed vegetables. Paav means bread roll. The paav bhaji is a gravy of mixed vegetables, butter loaded bread roll and served with lemon wedges, and lots of chopped onions. 

Traditional bhaji consists of cauliflower, peas, potato and lots of tomato. I made whatever was available in my fridge. Many times I made it with those veggies which my family members do not like to eat. 😁 Cruel Mom, Yes, I am! 

In today's post I am sharing paav bhaji recipe which I made from brocolli 🥦 and bottle gourd. 

Serve 2 to 4 people 

INGREDIENTS: 

1 cup Brocolli 

1 cup Dudhi (Bottle Gourd)

3 Big Potato 

3 Tomato 

1 Capsicum 

3 Onion 

2 tbsp Oil  

Cubes of Amul butter : As much as you can handle 

1 cup chopped coriander leaves 

1 Lemon 

1 Turmeric

1 tbsp Red chilli powder or (as per your taste)

2 tbsp Everest Paav bhaji Masala

Salt : as per taste 

DIRECTION  :

• Wash all the vegetables and chop in big chunks except capsicum.

• Pressure cook all vegetables including broccoli, bottle gourd, potato for 4 whistles.

• Blanch Tomato and make a paste of it.

•  Once the pressure cooker cools down remove the lid and let the vegetables cool. 

• Meanwhile chopped capsicum, onion, lots of coriander leaves.

• Grind all pressure cook vegetables or mash it with a masher. I prefer to grind. 

• Heat oil in a kadai. Add 2 cubes of Amul butter. Add onion and capsicum together and fry till the onion becomes translucent.

• Next add tomato paste and fry for 1 minute.

• Add all Powder masala and fry everything until the oil separates from the tomato.

•  Add mashed vegetables and fry.

• Add salt according to the taste and one cube of Amul Butter.

• Add water to make gravy. According to your preference how much you want your gravy thick or thin. 

• Lastly add 1 TSP paav bhaji masala again and coarnider leaves. Fry a little bit and cover with the lid.

•  After 5 minutes switch off the flame. Add Amul butter cube and close the lid. 

• After 10 minutes, you can serve this bhaji with paav. 

PREPARATION OF PAAV :

•  Cut the bread roll in two half.
•  Put tawa on flame. 
•  Once it hot low down the flame   and add an Amul butter cube. 
•  If you want masala paav then you   can add red chilli powder and   coriander leaves to the butter.
•  Put paav on that mixture and   roast the paav.

Your delicious paav bhaji is ready. Serve with chopped onions, lemon wedges and Amul butter cube.

HOW TO EAT PAAV BHAJI?

• First squeeze lemon juice on bhaji
• Then add lots of chopped onions and coriander leaves. 
• Then mix it very well with the help of spoon.
• Take small portion of paav and dip in the bhaji and then directly put it in your mouth,
• Yummm! 

TIPS : 

• You can add beetroot for the red colour along with all vegetables.
• The more butter the more tasty your gravy. So make it delicious. 
• You can add any vegetables of your choice but the main ingredient is potato and tomato. 
• Grate cheese cube on this bhaji your cheese paav bhaji is ready.

WRAP UP : 

Paav bhaji is Mumbai 's street food or you can say fast food. But this tasty food you can prepare at home in 15 minutes. Once or twice in a month you can have it in your meal. It is a good option to eat clean and homemade food. Though it is loaded with butter and paav but I guess once in a while you can eat this delicious meal. Next day do more workout 😂 Eat without any guilt please. 

In this rainy season check out the Cold Relief clear Chicken Soup 

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HEALTHY DINNER OF THE WEEK - JULY 2024

Hello, how are you? After hitting Monday blue finally, I am ready for the week. As I mentioned to you in my last post, I am going to share healthy dinner of the week for every month. But I always forget to take pictures, so my last post was here in April. 

I do plan a meal but not like a pro 😁 because it didn't work. Yes, I plan a little bit and it makes my week easy. Otherwise, my whole week will be messy and I will on irritating mode. 

We are Maharashtrian and rice and dal are our major staples. Being a twin toddler mom and one 10-year-old picky eater 😶(these kids have more tantrums for eating vegetables) it is very difficult to plan dinner and feed the family. I am sharing my easy dinners for the week of June 2024. What we actually eat for the week. Pictures are not professional 😁 It might help you (if you are a mom like me) to have an easy healthy dinner at home. 

HEALTHY DINNER OF THE WEEK - JULY 2024

MONDAY : DAL + RICE + SOYABEAN KADAI MASALA 

Monday was the most difficult day of the week. After having non-veg on weekends we prefer to have simple dal rice. It is Mandatory. 

This soybean kadai masala was yum. I tried this recipe from Brishti. You can try it your family will love it. This dish is permanent in my meal plan.  We had papad along with it and onion salad. They are missing in the picture. 

TUESDAY: FRIED RICE + ALOO PALAK+ TOMATO CHUTNEY + CHAPATI 

I planned for chapati and Aloo Palak only. But there was some leftover rice from lunch. I convert it into fried rice with a simple tadka of mustard, cumin, onion and basic powder masalas. I made Allo palak after a long gap. It is a simple recipe and in my family only I love it. So I have to make tomato chutney for the rest of them. (It is necessary to make your favourite meals too) 

WEDNESDAY:  CHANA AMTI + RICE + VANGAYCHE KAAP 

Malavani style chana amti is a staple in malavani house. The blend of coconut and onion masala gives an authentic flavour to this amti.

Brinjal is not so favourite in our house but we like this fried version. I keep it very simple. Slice a brinjal in a round shape and marinate with basic masala and salt. Shallow fry on medium hit. It tastes awesome. 

THURSDAY:  PAAV BHAJI 

It is paav bhaji day. When I don't feel like cooking I prefer to have a one-pot meal which goes for lunch and dinner too.  Paav bhaji is one of my family's favourite one-pot meals. Once in a while, you can eat paav. It is not going to harm your health at all.

This time I made it with broccoli, bottle gourd, potato and tomato. It is mommy's trick to feed lots of vegetables to the kid. Pressure cook and smash with a grinder. Easy peasy recipe that can be prepared in 10 minutes. You can check out the video here. Butter and cheese-loaded paav bhaji taste yummy!

FRIDAY : DAL + RICE + EGG BHURJI 

It is Maharashtrian dal - a mixture of moong and masoor dal. Pressure cook with a little bit of turmeric and oil. Then goes the normal tadka of garlic, cumin, mustard, curry leaves, and green chilli. The trick is to boil the whole dal for at least 10 minutes. Garnish with coriander. 

Egg burji tastes awesome with chapati but we used to eat chapati for breakfast and lunch too. We prefer to have dal rice for dinner. I love to have egg burji with dal rice. It is YUM 😋. (After all mom also needs some rest from chapati) you know that right!

On weekends we usually eat non-veg. Fish or mutton is on the menu.  

Wrap Up: 

I hope you will inspire to make a healthy Dinner for the entire week. It should be simple and easy. If you practice it every week it will definitely save your tons of money. 

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FAVOURITE BOOKS FOR 7 TO 10 YEARS OLD

 

Hello, how are you doing? Enjoying monsoon? We enjoyed it. Sitting in a window, watching rain and reading our favourite books is our afternoon activities. 

We still used to read aloud. My daughter is old enough to read by herself. But sometimes she needs to read aloud or like to have a competition with mummy. And then we both decide to finish as fast as we can. We discuss with details what we both like and don't like. 

Honestly speaking I love to read children's books. In my childhood I didn't get these kinds of books to read. I was in a vernacular medium where our library was filled with Marathi literature and story books. Almost 70 % of the books are in Marathi and hence I didn't find any attraction towards reading. Now though I purchased books for my children but I am greedy for myself.😁

Kids wanted to read what mumma read. (Imitation mechanisms). This one is a plus point for me. In today's post I am sharing our favourite books for 7 to 10 years old.

THE HAWAII HEIST 

The first one is the Geronimo Stilton Series.

The first time I got this book from our bookseller and after reading I was addicted. My daughter was 7 years old and she also loved it. At the back of the book she found the series and asked me to buy it. We didn't find it at the school library and so we asked our bookseller to bring the series which we wanted. Finally we have 6 books in this series. 

About the Book  : 

Geronimo is an Italian mouse who is a journalist. He took a break and was  on holiday at Hawaii.  He and his teammates found someone wanting to steal the precious necklace. Did they resolve this case ? Did they catch the thief? Mysterious and funny at the same time. I love Geronimo. I guess all children love Geronimo.

Highlights of the books : 

▶️ The book is filled with colorful pictures.

▶️ Bold and colourful words (highlighted )which definitely increase your child vocabulary. 

▶️ Simple language and engaging scenes.

▶️ Filled with lots of fun.

THE GOPI DIARIES COMING HOME 

Sudha murty is our favourite granny. We have lots of books of her especially grandma's bag of stories our all time favorites. There is a series of three books in Gopi Diaries. Out of which this one is my daughter's favourite because of Gopi. She scared dogs and I think that is the reason she loves this book.

About the Book: 

Gopi is a dog adopted by the Murty Family. The Gopi diary is all about Gopi's thoughts -  what he thinks? How did he adjust with new family members? It is the voice of Gopi. He tells how he settled down with a new loving family. 

Highlights of the books: 

▶️ language is simple and engaging.

▶️ This book also has pictures which foster the imagination in children. 

▶️ Easy to understand.

DORK DAIRY DEAR DORK 

About the Book: 

Dork Diary is the diary of a girl in middle school. Nikki Maxwell is struggling in her school with a mean girl. She got a sudden interest in student journalism and joined schools newspaper staff. She goes through daily life struggles and finds difficulties in the student journalism journey. However she ended  up as a famous advice columnist who advised students queries. It is filled with lots of fun. 

Highlights of the book 

▶️ It is in diary format. 

▶️ It seems like a middle school girl writing her daily diary. 

▶️ It is filled with lots of doodles and sketches. 

▶️ It is full of fun and describes how girl's lives revolve around family and school. 

▶️ It teaches how she finds a solution to her problems.

A must read for every girl. My favourite.

THE MAGIC OF LOST TEMPLE 

This is another story book by Sudha Murtys. 

This story reminds me of my grandmother. Every word of the story resembles me. How we went to grandma for summer holidays and how she loves us. 

About the Book 

City girl Noony stays with grandmother during summer break. She was surprised to see the slow pace of village life. But she managed to get involved in lots of activities with her grandmother and friends. She learned cycling, papad making and also learned many things regarding plants. She loves to hear stories from her grandma. Noony heard various stories about the temple which existed in her grandmother's village. But nobody saw it because it was lost. It increases Noony curiosity. It is all about How Noony find it ? How was that journey? 

Highlights of the books:

▶️ Easy and simple language.

▶️ It creates imagination in children. 

▶️ Kids can actually see the magic of a lost temple. 

HARRY POTTER AND CHAMBER OF SECRET 

This one is our read aloud book. I used to read while my kids listen and do some art activities. You all know Harry Potter and the series. The magical wizard World is enchanting and filled with thrillers. 

About the Book: 

This is Harry Potter's second year at Hogwarts school of witchcraft and wizardry. During this year all pupils get a message on the walls that the chamber of secrets is open and the monster will kill the student who is not from the wizard family. 

How Harry, Ron and Harmoni find the monster and solve this problem bravely.

Highlights of the Book

▶️ JK Rowling book is filled with all magic and wizardry elements.

▶️ Thrilling and engaging. We want to know what happened next? 

▶️ Once you take this book in hand you are bound to turn the page 

▶️ No, you are not going to learn any magic😁

DAIRY OF A WIMPY KIDS 

This one is our least favourite because it is filled with boys stuff (according to my daughter) but I liked it because of humor.

About the Book : 

Greg Heffley and his family lived in their grandmother's basement due to some financial loss. They were supposed to have a holiday tour but they couldn't afford it. The living conditions are boring according to Gerg. Even he can't play with his friends because they are on a trip to Europe. Finally they are  able to find the opportunity to leave their grandmother driveway and explore new places with their RV. This journey is filled with lots of fun and some thrilling experiences.

Highlights of the book : 

▶️ Humor of the book makes you laugh.

▶️ Kids can relate with Grey.

▶️ Filled with fun elements.

▶️ The book in diary form and filled with cartoons.

You can check out this kids book review too.

The tooth Fairy : 

Tractor 

Marathi Book Recommendation: 

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