Saee Turns 12

 Officially 12 now.

This year is very difficult year for her and I am struggling as a mother to reshape her mind. Shifting makes her unstable and she found it difficulties in adopting new home, new school and new neighbourhood. 

SAEE BIG SISTER 

One thing is sure that she loves her twins sister very much. Both sisters are her favourite like a Teddy Bear. She adore, hug and play with them whenever she can. Little sister copy everything from her DIDI which sometimes makes her annoying but then I have to tell her you are exactly like her. You used to do whatever we parents did. 

I must say she is my helping hand and handle twins very well whenever I required. Siblings love each other, fight with each other but still they want to be with each other. I adore the way both sister wave a goodbye to DIDI to school and when she returns they giggles. That love between these siblings melt my heart. 

THINGS I ADORE 

Family : Unlimited love for her twins sisters and cousins 

Friends : Struggling to make new but I can proudly say she have new 3 friends. Still she love her old friends and still they connected via text and call.

Sketching : Her new world is sketching. I am very surprised to see her improvement. Self taught and brilliant Skechers. She spend most of the time in sketching and I also don't bother her to stop doing that and study. 

Independent,  Responsible daughter: 

She understands the responsibility and sometimes acting like a more mature girl. Yes she wanted to have her own time and twin sisters sometimes give her hard time also. I tried to give her own time and let her live her life also. 

Watching Screen :

 Yes, screen is the most important part of her life. She learnt sketching and learnt many more things which inspired her a lots. I am very relieved that she is still not into any stupid reels, shorts or any make up videos. Yes she learning skin care and basic make up and teaching me too 😄 I love this part. 

Listening Music 

Music is her favourite thing. Her choice is incredible. I love each song she suggested me. We always watch songs on big screen and no wonder my 3 years old learnt all songs of BTS and BLACKPINK 💕

Eating : Saee loves to eat variety of food. She is foodie and love to eat quality food. 

Trying new food : Her love to try Korean food is beyond my imagination. Yea she tried many things at home only because we living in such area now where we can't access the Korean restaurant. I wonder, can she really eat that ? 

Roming with mummy : 

I am very much happy she love her mother very much. Currently she is not having any friends in our building and she trying as per her level. I found it is very difficult to make a new friends at new place. 

The best part is she love to roam with me in neighbourhood. We both are exploring this new area. She often asked me to have scooty ride and walk around our neighborhood. 

Shopping in super market.

This is the one thing she learnt. She can independently shop in this big super market. Her choice is high class but at the same time she realised we have our own budget. And she always stick to the budget and not randomly purchasing anything. I feel proud for that 

Losing intrest 

Yes, I feel very sad to see that she loose intrest quickly. This can be pre teen era or I don't know but I saw this major shift in her. I can't force her to keep going. If she doesn't like then she never tried that things. 

I hope she will not loose intrest in her studies. I am trying to make study time  interesting as I can because she still needs me in her studies and I love that. 

As I said , this year is bit difficult for her. While she is struggling to have a new friends and so she is mostly homesick. Love to roam with mummy whenever possible. She often asked me to have a scooty ride or walk in a neighborhood. I am actually delighted to be with her. I love to roam with her and chatting never end.

Slowly and steadily she will adapt new life. Sometimes it bothers me a lot but still I am not forcing her to do particular thing. I think when kids are ready they will do things. We should not forced them because we don't know what bothers them exactly and more over I believe that giving them time to adjust is the best way. 

Favourite Food : 

All kind of fruits. All kinds of paratha except methi and palak Paratha. Chicken, mutton, and panner. Chicken and mutton biryani. Biscuits, cookie, cakes, khari, butter, pizza, Burger, 

Favourite Drink : Milk, coffee (sometimes only), mogu mogu korean drink 

Favourite Show : Aayu pihu show, BTS of BTS and BLACKPINK, japan and Korean travel vlogs, and study vlogs. Love to watch Maharashtrachi Hasya Jatra, TMKOC Tarak Mehta Ka Olta Chashma show. 

Favourite Movie:

This year she explore horror movies 

Conjuring, Anabella and Korean webseries with mummy 

Favourite songs : BTS - Life goes on , Blood, swat and tears  in short ( BTS army )

Favourite colour : Purple 

Favourite outfit: Jackets, one piece, shorts at home only,  jeans, long loose t- shirts most black, don't like frocks at all. 

Favourite Book : Geronimo Stilton series. 

Love to read aloud with twin sisters 

Favourite things to do : Playing with twin sisters, sketching, sensory play with sisters, writing, journling, watching movies with family. Drinking water from the jug 

Wake time : Saee generally wake up around 9 to 9 :30 am and sleep around 11:30 pm

Likes

• Family Friends
• Twin siblings and cousins 
• Eat
• Drink
• Watching sunsets
• Listening music 
• Sketching 
• Sensory Play
• Walking 
• Riding 
• Exploring 

My first little doll slowly turning into a teenager. I wish you to have healthy and happy life. Keep exploring new things and be adaptable. 

KHIDKI VADA PAAV

The post is for #Blogchatterfoodfest

Prompt: Favorite Eating Joint in My City.

I was born and brought up in Kalyan. There are many old eating joints that still provide delicious food. 

One of them is Khidki Vada Paav. 

HISTORY BEHIND KHIDAKI VADA PAAV :

Every famous dish has its own and unique history. I know this because my father used to eat this vada paav. 

The owners have been selling Khidki Vada since 1960 and till date provide the same delicacy. The owner of this outlet sold vada paav from his house window, and so the name is "Khidki Vada." He is the person. 

who actually brought the Mumbai version of the burger into existence. 

Where: 

Khidki Vada, Tilak Chowk,

Kalyan West.

Rating: 4.5/5

There are now many outlets available in different stations like Ulhasnagar, Badlapur, etc.

We went to this vada paav center when I was in school/college. It was our favorite. Even today, if I visit my mom, I ask my brother to bring the same vada paav.

WHAT MAKES IT SPECIAL ?

The Potato Vada: 

The vada is bigger than any other vada. The taste of that potato sabji is authentic and desi—pure Maharashtra style. 

The coating of the besan is very thin. You will never feel that you are eating besan only. In fact, you will actually taste potato sabji and not the outer cover. 

THE CHUTNEY : 

They provide two types of chutney—garlic chutney and green chutney. And of course fry green chilies. 

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Choti Methi Bhaji Recipe 

Malvani Surmai Fish Fry Recipe 

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MONSOON TIPS FOR A FAMILY

I love monsoon, especially roaming with an umbrella, those muddy puddles, and wearing raincoat and muddy toes. Ahhh...!

When this happened (in my working Era)I used to get irritated. But now as a stay-at-home mom, I am craving this. 😬

TRUE!

All stay-at-home mommies, can this be relatable?

Last Sunday we went to Reliance for a monthly grocery visit in the rain. There were muddy puddles, and my little one always asked me to take her in the rain. I took her; she enjoyed it a lot, got wet, and jumped in muddy puddles, and I too enjoyed this phase. Without worrying and irritating her, I let her enjoy the way she wants.

That is my achievement. 🤩 Calming, Mom!

Anyways, this will not happen every day. ☹️ Sharing here some tips that I have followed for the last 8 years, especially for monsoon, to keep my family healthy.

MONSOON TIPS FOR A FAMILY : 

1. DECLUTTER YOUR BALCONIES

We tend to put unused things on the balcony, like a toy cycle stool. The list will never end. Make sure before the monsoon to declutter your balconies. Keep it empty and clean so that even if water comes inside you, you can quickly wipe it, and there is less chance of insects and mosquitoes.

2. MOSQUITO NETTING ON WINDOWS 

In summer we used to keep open windows, but in monsoon don't forget to put up netted windows. This will help in preventing bugs, houseflies, and mosquitoes in your house.

3. WATER PURIFIER 

Most of the diseases are waterborne. To take extra care of your family, use a purifier. Take a new water purifier if you don't have one or do maintenance before the monsoon starts. So that you can have clean water. Carry home water in bottles wherever you go.

4. HOT /LUKEWARM WATER

If any of your family members feel cold, don't forget to have a hot water intake. Try to have it on rainy days so that it will keep your kids and other family members warm. Generally I used to give them lukewarm water to drink every day in the monsoon.

5. PRECAUTIONS WHILE BUYING VEGETABLE: 

Avoid leafy vegetables and root vegetables. I still took carrot and ginger, as these are staples because chai to adrak b ke bina nahi banati. Avoid buying cauliflower, and cabbage.

6. Soups SOUPS MANDATORY IN DIET

Homemade veggie-loaded soups are a must in kids diets. Though in market there are readymade soups available. Ditch that packaged food and try to make at home. Fresh and hygiene soups should be there in your meals. I tried to make it at least twice in a week. Check out the easy recipe of corn soup 

7. GUMBOOT, UMBRELLA  and RAINCOAT

These are mandatory. Check it out once it is available in the house to see whether it is in good condition. Buy new only if needed. But each member should have an umbrella or raincoat. Monsoon sandals are also mandatory. Moms, don't forget to buy a new pair for you even if you are staying at home.

8. HYGIENE :

Keeping your kids safe during monsoon is a very tough job. Make a habit of washing hands with soap and water before eating anything. Also wash your kids hands, legs, and toes properly with mild soap after playing.

9. TRAVEL KIT IN MONSOON : 

Rainy season and travel are the most important parts of life. Don't forget to go out in lovely weather with your babies and kids. However, you need to take extra care while travelling with babies or small kids.

Carry the following things while travelling in monsoon:

- Sturdy bags to accommodate enough things.

- Carry bags to put wet clothes or garbage.

- Wet wipes to wipe out dirt.

- Raincoat and rainy season shoes

- Clean water bottles

- Diapers and sanitizer

- Extra pair of clothes, hand towels, and handkerchief

- homemade dry snacks like chakali, chikki, laddu, etc.

- Mosquito repellent spray.

10. DRESS ACCORDINGLY MONSOON :

Although if it is not raining and kids want to play outside, put on a full-sleeved t-shirt and full pants to cover their whole body. And once they returned home, they took out those clothes and put them in the washer. Have clothes which can dry easily in monsoon season. Avoid heavy fabric clothes. 

CONCLUSION:

Monsoon season is one of the most beautiful seasons of the year. It is a natural cleanser of the earth. Don't keep your kids inside the house only. Let them get wet, let them play, and let them enjoy the rain. With the above tips, you can take precautions to protect your kids and families. Don't forget to enjoy yourself too.

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ADOLESCENCE

Everyone is talking about this short series on Netflix. I can't resist myself and after watching it - it hits hard as a parent. The younger generation are facing so much social pressure which is beyond our understanding. 

PS : Google 

ABOUT THE SERIES: 

It is a series where 13 year old Jammi Miller gets arrested early in the morning from his home. And his act  turns his parents life upside down and is giving us a panic attack as a parent. 

This 4 episode series revolves around the crime investigation of the 13 years old boy. The boy belongs to the middle class family. Jammie Millers stabs her classmate Katie. And the crime investigation started. The police, the lawyer and the psychologist - everyone efforts to find out what was the motive behind the murder? 

REVIEW :

He doesn't have any past or have any worst friend circle. Even his parents raise him with good standards. They are loving parents and do not have any fights inside the house. 

In short where everything around Jimmi was favourable no one can digest that he can do a murder. 

The last episode makes you cry, devastated and introspect. Parents try to give him everything whatever they can. They try to teach him sports, arts and music but he doesn't have any interest because he has been into Social media. And when they said he was always inside his bedroom he was safe. But what he was doing inside the bedroom upto midnight? No one care. 

ADOLESCENCE CAST 

Owen Cooper as Jamie Miller

Stephen Graham as Eddie Miller, Jamie’s father

Ashley Walters as Detective Inspector Luke Bascombe

Erin Doherty as Briony Ariston, the clinical psychologist assigned to Jamie’s case

Faye Marsay

Christine Tremarco

Mark Stanley

Jo Hartley

Amlie Pease

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Available on NETFLIX 

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After watching this series, I think we parents should ask a few questions to ourselves.

Are we really busy ?

Do we have any connection with our children?

Do We need to give everything to them ? 

Is it necessary to have a mobile phone at the age of 10 ? 

Are we able to put our butt in their life? 

Can we read our children's minds?

I know we can't pay attention to everything. But I think there should be limits on demands, social media usage. 

Important lessons I learnt from this series are : 

• They want respect.
• They want to listen without judgement.

We often think a girl child is not safe but I was wrong. Even a boy child is also not safe. Our children are not safe outside as well as inside the house too. 

• Only if we know what they are doing? 
• What is going on in their mind? 
• Are they getting bullied in school or even on the playground?
• Are we able to talk with them?

CONCLUSION: 

Adolescence is the stage where they are no more kids and not adults yet. Their major part of the brain is developing. The more chances they will get in the wrong way. It is really necessary to have connections with them. We should talk daily and give them love and respect. Parents should maintain a friendly atmosphere at home where children can share every tiny thing. 

Facing this Adolescence age is very difficult for the parents. But with the right approach we can sail the boat. 

Yes it is possible? What do you think? 

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GHIBLI AI

 I guess एक हफ्ता होऊन गेला असेल GHIBLI AI जे बऱ्यापैकी ट्रेडिंग होते. Almost सगळ्याच लोकांनी आपले फोटो Gibhil AI create केलं होते. खूपच छान वाटत होते. नाही का? आणि त्यानंतर तर GHIBHLI gets wrong हा सुद्धा ट्रेंड आला or सध्या चालू आहे. कॉमेडी pictures चा. तोही लोकांनी बऱ्याच प्रमाणात डोक्यावर घेतला. 

तुम्ही सुद्धा केलेच असतील ना असे pictures? Off course सगळ्यांच्या what's App DP वर आणि इन्स्टाग्रामवर सुद्धा आहेत. 

पण खरच हे सुरक्षित आहे का? तुम्ही याची खात्री करुन घेतली का?

तर आता तुम्ही बोलल सगळेच तर करत आहेत. काय प्रोब्लेम आहे? तुम्ही AI ला सरळ सरळ पर्सनल pictures चा access देत आहात. 

AI किती डेंजर आहे हे स्वतः Elon ne inform केले आहे. कोणताही अँप इंस्टॉल करताना त्याच्या टर्म्स आणि condition read करणे ही आपली जबाबदारी असते आणि लोक ट्रेंडच्या नादात हे विसरून जातात. तुमचे pic's, तुमच्या family members चे pics, sensitive pics या सगळ्यांच AI कसा वापर करू शकतो याची कल्पना तरी केली आहे का? 

हो, मी नाही ट्रेंडच्या मागे धावत. Specially जिथे असे access मागितले जातात तिथे तर अजिबातच नाही. तसेही काहीही सुरक्षित नाही पण तरीही आपणहून चिखलात का पडायचे? नाही का?

मी GHIBHLI art original creator चा video पाहिला. आणि ही was शॉक. त्याचे creation Ya AI ne काही सेकंदात re-create केले ज्या साठी त्याने खूप मेहनत घेतली होती. बट खरोखर अशा creators चा जॉब गेलाच की नाही? 

सिक्युरिटी लॉज आहेत बट त्यांची अंमलबजावणी होईपर्यंत किती वेळ जाईल याची कोणालाच कल्पना नाही. 

असो.

माझे बोलणे एवढेच आहे की ट्रेंडच्या मागे लागून आपल्या पर्सनल इन्फॉर्मेशन ची access अशी सहजासहजी देऊ नका. 

Be Safe and Secure.

FRIDAY FAVOURITE 005

Hello and welcome to my blog, especially this Friday Favorite series. This one could be the gratitude series. I am trying to figure out some positive outlooks from every week. I have tried daily gratitude journaling, but somehow I am unable to match up with that due to my busy schedule. So I wanted to get back to this series where I used to put my gratitude on a monthly basis. 

This year I wanted to try it on a weekly basis. As a mom, I often get burned out, and I found that gratitude helps me in finding out the balance. Each time I am able to seek out how much I am grateful for whatever I have, I will not run in the rat race.

I am sharing my five favorite things of this week, which I love. 

Ready-to-eat food is often loaded with chemicals, and so I am against it. But now there are mini summer vacations going on, and lots of screaming and constant food demand make me more irritated. And at the same time, I am telling myself to take a deep breath and not lash out with anger. Yayy, mumma… I am trying to be calm 😐 because I don't want to transfer my anger to my kids. 

Frankly speaking, I am tired of cooking the same food that they always eat. I blinkit ready-to-eat kebab and roti.

I like it because, as per the ingredient list, there are no harmful ingredients, and it is tastier. You just have to shallow fry on medium flame. It took almost 10 minutes to cook perfectly.

Roti : I thought this was like Malabar Parotta. because the package was was looking like that only. When I opened the packet, it was ready-to-eat roti. Means you have to cook it on tawa. This packet contains 10 roti. Honestly, this one was not on my list, but I ran out of aata, and so I ordered it. It becomes hard after some time. So you have to eat it quickly.

The third one is a book on my list. You guys know I have a toddler, and ordering books for them is my favorite thing. Just because I don't find a kids book library in my area and I am spending a huge amount of money on this book. Shh...! You know I have these books only in Rs.80 to 90. 

Currently these are our favorite books. It is all about professions. I ordered only these two books. One is a doctor, and the other one is a police officer. I love how the book is designed in pictures so that tiny little ones can relate to it. It is an interesting book, and we love it.

Fourth, my favorite is food reels. One of my favorite recipes is beetroot koshambir. Here is the link for the detailed video. Summer has already started, and so we are more into eating lots of koshambir. Beetroot is one of the things that is not liked by everyone. But trust me, I made this, and it is finished within minutes. It is so tasty. 

All you have to do is boil beetroot and grate it. Mix the grated beetroot in curd. Add salt, a little bit of sugar, and mix it very well. The next part is tadka. Heat up the oil in the tadka pan, add mustard seeds, curry leaves, and green chilies, and pour this tadka on the curd mixture; your delicious beetachi koshimbir is ready. 

The last but not the least is a movie on Panni: this movie is one of the best movies because it is a realistic movie.

The real story of the man who fought for water with the nature - (Drought) and his postive thinking compels every one to work hard to get water. How he overcome with difficulties, his marriage and many more obstacles but still he achieve his goal. It is one of the inspiring movie that everyone should watch to know the value of water. Available on OTT platform. 

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Which one is your favorite thing of this week? Comment below. 

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HOLI 2025

Holi 2025 is a special Holi just because my twins actually understand what the festival is. 

This time we also witnessed the MOON.

Holi is a spring festival filled with lots of colors and joy. Where everyone burnt all negativity in Holika Dahan and played with joy, laughter, and love. There is immense positive energy flow on the day of DHULWAD.

WHAT IS DHULWAD?

Dhulwad is a Marathi word—actual Holi people played with color. On this day, actual people used to color the Dhul (mitti) of Holika Dahan.

I got this information from my father. He told me how madly people enjoy it, and we have to enjoy it too. Because we stay in India, we have to celebrate each festival with joy. 

Water, color balloons, pichakari, and permanent black and silver colors are all my favorite things. Introducing everything, my kiddo is my favorite activity. 

This is my second time where I again became small and played color with them. For the last two years my Holi was confined inside the home, but this year I am grateful to the universe that I actually go out and enjoy. (A little bit, but that matters to me most.) 😊

Taking pics is mandatory nowadays to flaunt on social media. But frankly speaking, this time we both intentionally did not take a mobile with us. We mindfully enjoy the festival with friends and all the little kiddos. And so there are no photos, and I did not have any regrets. Rather, I clicked a few pics when we were at home after playing Holi. 

Question of the day 

How do you play Holi? For social media pics, did you really enjoy them?