Sunday, 30 October 2022

First Diwali of my twins

Diwali is always close to my heart. I love this festival which bring happiness, lights and joyy! My happiness with my kids is increased four times now😍. Special diwali dated 24 October 2022!

Love to do cleaning specially deep cleaning every corner of my house,  Shopping till the last day, diya paintings, preparing sweets for my family and making ready to my kids. It is the most difficult task to make ready these 3 girls but I enjoyed it😉 


I am a family person and love to be surrounded by family. But due to many issue this year I am not going to my father's house for Bhaubeej 😒 video calls makes it easier. Greatful to the technology.


This time we have new member in our family and they are my twins😍❣️And this was our first diwali with my twins. They are 9 months old now, big enough - crossing these months not an easy task but yes, we crossed it happily with lots of stress - (Real life😐). After all this is my family and I wanted to have so I am really happy and blessed to have a lovely family. Sharing some diwali glimpse. 



We both never ever thought to have a such big family. My mother's blessing ! 🙏🏻


My valuable asset!☺


My pride, my saee❤


After so much cry we finally able to click to this little dolly.


Managed to drew this small and simple rangoli.


After a long time click a photo. 😇

And yes how can we forget the sweets 😉 FARAL.




And on this sweet note signing off.

Hope you like our diwali pics. Yes I know tradition is to keep it on whats app status when they are fresh. But this is our personal space - Memory Flies which stores lots of sweet memories. 

Still thank you for stopping by! 


With Love
Neeta 

PS : All pics belong to MemoryFlies. Do not use it for any purpose without permission.




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Wednesday, 19 October 2022

How to clean your house for Diwali

Diwali is the festival where we clean each and every corner of the house.  Cleaning is tidious job. But every one love to have clean and shiny room. It is  easier to have a cleaning but difficult task is to maintain.😀With twin baby it is quite difficult for me to clean each corner of my house but  I have lower down my standards of cleaning😜

According to the current state of my life I am happy as much as I can do. So here are the tips which I generally follow. Not for only diwali but for a seasonal deep Cleaning.

Pic Source : Pixababy 


Disclaimer : I am sharing my experience which might be helpful to you. This post is for them who are busy, have baby and do not able to clean up in one week.  

Sharing some simple tips for stress free cleaning. And you will not going to ended up with any doctor visits😑 (generally people fall sicks after cleaning).  I know, I am quite late for this post, but never mind !

Let's start the post. 

1. Break the task into little chunks : 

Instead of doing everything in one day try to divide the work in small chunks. This will not makes you tired and yes you will be not fall sick due to dust. 


2. Start early at least 1 month before: 

If you are doing this deep cleaning particularly for any festival then start early at least before 1 month. 


3. 30 minutes rule : 

Give 30 minutes only to clean up. This is my go to rule. Trust me it work best when you have little kids and your day is packed with so many to do list. While deep cleaning when you break the task in chunks then try to finish that small task in 30 minutes. 30 minutes is the minimum time. You may increase it but make sure you have to complete that particular task only. I ended up with other things if I do not allow myself to finish in 30 minutes.


4. Always clean your kitchen first: 

Yes, kitchen is the most difficult to clean up. Oily, greesy kitchen takes a lot of time for clean up. It will motivate us when we have clean kitchen. 


5. Give yourself a treat on completion of the particular room. Like an ice cream, cold coffee, cupcake or pizza anything which you like. 😜 Treat to banata hain na boss! 



Now the question is how to start ? 

Not to worry ! I am also a lazy person, so sharing the easiest way of cleaning which is working for me from last 5 years. 

Assign one week per room and pick up the time as per your convince.

Week 1 : Kitchen

Monday: 

Clean all containers, utensil which you use less frequently.


Tuesday : 

Clean fridge. Declutter sauce, packet food which is not in good condition or expired. Clean and wipe fridge. 


Wednesday : 

Clean trolley if you have. If you have stand like utensil stand, pantry stand, cup stand, clean everything. Declutter the utensils like cup, spoon, dish, bowls, etc which you are not using. Clean decorations if you have any. 


Thursday : 

Clean tiles, sockets, curtain and curtain stand, walls, kitchen towels, rugs, scrubs which we use specially for cleaning. Make sure to have a separate scrub for daily dish washing and for monthly cleaning.


Friday : Wipes all upper surfaces of kitchen cabinets. Clean kitchen platform and sink. And complete any leftover work from Monday. Because we give only 30 to 60 minutes for the cleaning.


Saturday : You have sparkle clean kitchen. Prepare some snack and enjoy movie time at home with your partner.😊


Week 2 : BEDROOMS

Monday :

Clean walls, upper surface of wardrobe, and fan. Wipe doors and windows.

Tuesday : 

Clean wardrobe and declutter clothes, bags, belts etc. Allow 30 to 60 minutes maximum.

Wednesday : 

Clean your purse, small bedside drawers, junk drawers. Clean curtains, bedsheets and blankets.

Thursday : 

Clean dressing table and study table. Declutter expired make up materials and old books, pens, colors and craft material.

Friday : Clean kids wardrobe.

Saturday : 

You have clean bedrooms. Take help of your kids to clean up their things. Give an ice cream treat to yourself and kids too. 😜



Week 3 : Living Room

Monday : 

Clean and wipes walls, fan , lights, curtains, door and windows.

Tuesday : 

Clean book shelf and toy cupboard. Declutter and organize in simple way so that each thing can be accessible to kids. 


Wednesday : 

Clean TV unit and shoe racks. Declutter if any unnecessary things taking space over there. 


Thursday : 

Clean dining table and crockery unit. Declutter the broken crockery which you  still keep only because of emotions.


Friday : 

Deep clean bathroom and toilets if needed a deep cleaning.

I generally don't need to do any deep clean of bathrooms because I am having a habit to deep clean on every Monday.


Plus have a habit to clean trash cans twice in a week. 

 

Saturday : Yeeaa! You have clean home. Now it is time for Diwali shopping. Enjoy 😜


You can do it as per your comfort level. Finish task in 2 days or in a week. This is the way where you can deep clean each corner of your house neatly without rush and stress. 

Week 4  : Start your diwali sweet preparations. 

We used to prepare our diwali sweet with whole family. In the same way ask your kids and husband to help you in sweet preparations. 


Hussshhhh!! The biggest diwali saafsafai is finally done. ☺☺ Enjoy your diwali with your family and friends.


Wishing you all Happy Diwali in advance. 

Comment below how do you clean your house? You do it by yourself ? Or by Urban clap people 😁?


This blog post is part of the blog challenge ‘Blogaberry Dazzle’ hosted by Cindy D’Silva and Noor Anand Chawla in collaboration with Baked Happily Ever After.


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Wednesday, 12 October 2022

My diaper experience

Many times I have been told do not use diapers it is not good, Meanwhile me, yes ! I know it. 


But with twins there is no other way. Everything you have to do double. You have one potty but I have two at a single time. And in a day it might be 12 times😁 so what do you think ? 



Diapers specially disposable makes mommy's life little bit easier. Can have some kind of mental peace and for me physical too😇 where you do not want to clean the panties or clothes multiple times. And the floor mess is another headache. So I always prefer a rule : 

"Eikave janache karave manache " - (means ) - Listen everyone, but prefer to do what your heart say! 


There are some mommies who also ask me several questions on diaper. I am using diapers for my babies from 9 months. Fact I did not use diapers for my first daughters😊. So, here I am sharing my diaper experience. You may get the answer for your queries. So let's start the post.


Q. Disposable diapers are good for baby ?

Ans: No. Disposable diapers are not good for babies. They contain chemical which is harmful to baby's delicate skin. 

But, if you use it cautiously it will not going to harm.


Q. Can we use diapers for new born?

Ans : Yes, Doctors advise to use diapers. ( in hospital stay only). 


Q. How to choose disposable diaper?

A: Disposable diapers came with every size on the basis of baby weight. Choose the diaper according to your baby weight. It will fit exactly. Always remember diaper should not be too tight nor be too loose.


Q. Is there different type of diaper for girls and boys?

A : Nowdays we get unisex diaper. Choose these so that anyone boy baby or girl baby can wear it.


I am using the above one. These are best diapers for my babies. 

Q. How to wear diaper to baby?

A : On every diapers there are written instructions with pictures. You can check the front side and back side - written on the diaper. Use that  pictorial information and wear it. 


Put your baby on dry sheet so that potty or urine will not make bedsheets dirty. Pick the leg slightly up and insert diaper as you wear a panty.


Q. What kind of precautions should we take while using a diapers?

A : Put the diaper on clean and dry area.

Put coconut oil or Vaseline before every new diaper. Keep your baby diaper free almost for the hour. That area should also get air and sunlight.


Q. How much time we should keep the baby in diapers?

A : As much as possible keep your baby diaper free. Use diapers which can absorb 12 hours. Put that kind of diaper at night time only. In a day time try to change it frequently. There is one line on diaper which indicate the sign of diaper change. Always check that.



You may like to read :

Indian diet for twin pregnancy 

Beauty of Kashmir

Badam shake for pregnant and breastfeeding moms.


Q. How to avoid rashes?

A : Diaper rash is the common problems. But if you take following precautions your baby will not have any diaper rashes.

1. Make a habit to quick change the diaper after every potty. Do not dry the potty inside the diaper. 

2. Always wash the potty area with clean water and soft clothes or cotton. If baby is newborn use cotton. 

3. Wash the potty area after every urine passage too. Means if baby's diaper is heavy due to only urine. Try to wash the area with plain lukewarm water.

4. Make sure to air dry the area. Then apply coconut oil or Vaseline or diaper rash cream.

Then put the diaper.


This gyan is from my diaper experience😀. My twinnies are 9 months old and I am using diaper since one day when they were born. We still not have any kind of issue. 

Hope this post is useful to you, moms. If not then please share with the needy one.


Share your diaper experience in the comment section below.


This blog post is part of the blog challenge ‘Blogaberry Dazzle’ hosted by Cindy D’Silva and Noor Anand Chawla in collaboration with Baked Happily Ever After.



©Neeta Kadam. This article and image are the property of Memory Flies. Any unauthorized use or duplication of this material without express and written permission from this site’s author is strictly prohibited.


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