Nowadays people forget how to become kind or how to practice kindness. We need kindness from our family and relatives only. We didn't expect it from unknown people. But these families or our own relatives are habitual to criticize us in many ways. After crossing 40, I have seen much trauma in my life and realize why people around us can't be kind. To become available or to be kind doesn't need money. But still people forget the past and become less emotional and show their real color.
I am sharing a few things that may be relatable to you too.
Scene 1:
My mother was admitted for heart surgery at the end of lockdown. And I was the one who stayed with her throughouther admitted period. Because females need to stay in the female ward, and I am the only female in my family who can stay there continuously. I have a little sister who is married and staying in the same area where my mother stays. But her husband never allowed her to help me.
Kindness—I am talking about the kindness here. I don't want to dig up the reasons, but I just wanted to know, where is her kindness? Why does she need permission from her husband? Why did her husband not allow her to have a hospital stay? I also have a family, and my husband is also working. At that time her husband was at home—jobless. But still these people can't help us by being available whenever we require.
Scene 2:
In the year 2015 my father was on an oxygen cylinder. His lungs were damaged, and he can't breathe oxygen. So the doctor advised him to have an oxygen cylinder as much as he can. At that time a cylinder cost INR 750 to 1000, and one cylinder works only for 4 hours. We need money, and we have rich relatives who became rich due to my father only. Their job was saved by my father. I just wanted to say this is the time where they can show gratitude. None of them offer any money. We never asked money from any of them. But again, where is the kindness?
Scene No. 3
Recently my aunt was admitted to the hospital for gallbladder problems. He has only one son—married with kids. Due to exam time, his wife can't stay in the hospital. And his cousin sister stays nearby to his house. He asked her to stay in the hospital. And she stayed too. She belongs to a rich family, but still he has to pay for her auto and food. That poor boy already had lots of expenses, but still he managed to pay.
Where is the kindness?
These and many more situations are there where we need help from our family members and relatives, but I don't understand why they don't want to help.
CONCLUSION:
खरंच माणुसकी हरवत चालली की अशा माणसांना माणुसकी नसतेच मुळी. 🥺 तुम्ही गेला असालच ना या सारख्या गोष्टीतून. तुमचा अनुभव सांगा.
Question of the day
Tell us your experience where you expect kindness and you face brutality.
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