ADOLESCENCE

Everyone is talking about this short series on Netflix. I can't resist myself and after watching it - it hits hard as a parent. The younger generation are facing so much social pressure which is beyond our understanding. 

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ABOUT THE SERIES: 

It is a series where 13 year old Jammi Miller gets arrested early in the morning from his home. And his act  turns his parents life upside down and is giving us a panic attack as a parent. 

This 4 episode series revolves around the crime investigation of the 13 years old boy. The boy belongs to the middle class family. Jammie Millers stabs her classmate Katie. And the crime investigation started. The police, the lawyer and the psychologist - everyone efforts to find out what was the motive behind the murder? 

REVIEW :

He doesn't have any past or have any worst friend circle. Even his parents raise him with good standards. They are loving parents and do not have any fights inside the house. 

In short where everything around Jimmi was favourable no one can digest that he can do a murder. 

The last episode makes you cry, devastated and introspect. Parents try to give him everything whatever they can. They try to teach him sports, arts and music but he doesn't have any interest because he has been into Social media. And when they said he was always inside his bedroom he was safe. But what he was doing inside the bedroom upto midnight? No one care. 

ADOLESCENCE CAST 

Owen Cooper as Jamie Miller

Stephen Graham as Eddie Miller, Jamie’s father

Ashley Walters as Detective Inspector Luke Bascombe

Erin Doherty as Briony Ariston, the clinical psychologist assigned to Jamie’s case

Faye Marsay

Christine Tremarco

Mark Stanley

Jo Hartley

Amlie Pease

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Available on NETFLIX 

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After watching this series, I think we parents should ask a few questions to ourselves.

Are we really busy ?

Do we have any connection with our children?

Do We need to give everything to them ? 

Is it necessary to have a mobile phone at the age of 10 ? 

Are we able to put our butt in their life? 

Can we read our children's minds?

I know we can't pay attention to everything. But I think there should be limits on demands, social media usage. 

Important lessons I learnt from this series are : 

• They want respect.
• They want to listen without judgement.

We often think a girl child is not safe but I was wrong. Even a boy child is also not safe. Our children are not safe outside as well as inside the house too. 

• Only if we know what they are doing? 
• What is going on in their mind? 
• Are they getting bullied in school or even on the playground?
• Are we able to talk with them?

CONCLUSION: 

Adolescence is the stage where they are no more kids and not adults yet. Their major part of the brain is developing. The more chances they will get in the wrong way. It is really necessary to have connections with them. We should talk daily and give them love and respect. Parents should maintain a friendly atmosphere at home where children can share every tiny thing. 

Facing this Adolescence age is very difficult for the parents. But with the right approach we can sail the boat. 

Yes it is possible? What do you think? 

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GHIBLI AI

 I guess एक हफ्ता होऊन गेला असेल GHIBLI AI जे बऱ्यापैकी ट्रेडिंग होते. Almost सगळ्याच लोकांनी आपले फोटो Gibhil AI create केलं होते. खूपच छान वाटत होते. नाही का? आणि त्यानंतर तर GHIBHLI gets wrong हा सुद्धा ट्रेंड आला or सध्या चालू आहे. कॉमेडी pictures चा. तोही लोकांनी बऱ्याच प्रमाणात डोक्यावर घेतला. 

तुम्ही सुद्धा केलेच असतील ना असे pictures? Off course सगळ्यांच्या what's App DP वर आणि इन्स्टाग्रामवर सुद्धा आहेत. 

पण खरच हे सुरक्षित आहे का? तुम्ही याची खात्री करुन घेतली का?

तर आता तुम्ही बोलल सगळेच तर करत आहेत. काय प्रोब्लेम आहे? तुम्ही AI ला सरळ सरळ पर्सनल pictures चा access देत आहात. 

AI किती डेंजर आहे हे स्वतः Elon ne inform केले आहे. कोणताही अँप इंस्टॉल करताना त्याच्या टर्म्स आणि condition read करणे ही आपली जबाबदारी असते आणि लोक ट्रेंडच्या नादात हे विसरून जातात. तुमचे pic's, तुमच्या family members चे pics, sensitive pics या सगळ्यांच AI कसा वापर करू शकतो याची कल्पना तरी केली आहे का? 

हो, मी नाही ट्रेंडच्या मागे धावत. Specially जिथे असे access मागितले जातात तिथे तर अजिबातच नाही. तसेही काहीही सुरक्षित नाही पण तरीही आपणहून चिखलात का पडायचे? नाही का?

मी GHIBHLI art original creator चा video पाहिला. आणि ही was शॉक. त्याचे creation Ya AI ne काही सेकंदात re-create केले ज्या साठी त्याने खूप मेहनत घेतली होती. बट खरोखर अशा creators चा जॉब गेलाच की नाही? 

सिक्युरिटी लॉज आहेत बट त्यांची अंमलबजावणी होईपर्यंत किती वेळ जाईल याची कोणालाच कल्पना नाही. 

असो.

माझे बोलणे एवढेच आहे की ट्रेंडच्या मागे लागून आपल्या पर्सनल इन्फॉर्मेशन ची access अशी सहजासहजी देऊ नका. 

Be Safe and Secure.

FRIDAY FAVOURITE 005

Hello and welcome to my blog, especially this Friday Favorite series. This one could be the gratitude series. I am trying to figure out some positive outlooks from every week. I have tried daily gratitude journaling, but somehow I am unable to match up with that due to my busy schedule. So I wanted to get back to this series where I used to put my gratitude on a monthly basis. 

This year I wanted to try it on a weekly basis. As a mom, I often get burned out, and I found that gratitude helps me in finding out the balance. Each time I am able to seek out how much I am grateful for whatever I have, I will not run in the rat race.

I am sharing my five favorite things of this week, which I love. 

Ready-to-eat food is often loaded with chemicals, and so I am against it. But now there are mini summer vacations going on, and lots of screaming and constant food demand make me more irritated. And at the same time, I am telling myself to take a deep breath and not lash out with anger. Yayy, mumma… I am trying to be calm 😐 because I don't want to transfer my anger to my kids. 

Frankly speaking, I am tired of cooking the same food that they always eat. I blinkit ready-to-eat kebab and roti.

I like it because, as per the ingredient list, there are no harmful ingredients, and it is tastier. You just have to shallow fry on medium flame. It took almost 10 minutes to cook perfectly.

Roti : I thought this was like Malabar Parotta. because the package was was looking like that only. When I opened the packet, it was ready-to-eat roti. Means you have to cook it on tawa. This packet contains 10 roti. Honestly, this one was not on my list, but I ran out of aata, and so I ordered it. It becomes hard after some time. So you have to eat it quickly.

The third one is a book on my list. You guys know I have a toddler, and ordering books for them is my favorite thing. Just because I don't find a kids book library in my area and I am spending a huge amount of money on this book. Shh...! You know I have these books only in Rs.80 to 90. 

Currently these are our favorite books. It is all about professions. I ordered only these two books. One is a doctor, and the other one is a police officer. I love how the book is designed in pictures so that tiny little ones can relate to it. It is an interesting book, and we love it.

Fourth, my favorite is food reels. One of my favorite recipes is beetroot koshambir. Here is the link for the detailed video. Summer has already started, and so we are more into eating lots of koshambir. Beetroot is one of the things that is not liked by everyone. But trust me, I made this, and it is finished within minutes. It is so tasty. 

All you have to do is boil beetroot and grate it. Mix the grated beetroot in curd. Add salt, a little bit of sugar, and mix it very well. The next part is tadka. Heat up the oil in the tadka pan, add mustard seeds, curry leaves, and green chilies, and pour this tadka on the curd mixture; your delicious beetachi koshimbir is ready. 

The last but not the least is a movie on Panni: this movie is one of the best movies because it is a realistic movie.

The real story of the man who fought for water with the nature - (Drought) and his postive thinking compels every one to work hard to get water. How he overcome with difficulties, his marriage and many more obstacles but still he achieve his goal. It is one of the inspiring movie that everyone should watch to know the value of water. Available on OTT platform. 

Question of the day 

Which one is your favorite thing of this week? Comment below. 

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