Wednesday 21 August 2024

SAEE TURNS 11


And finally, she entered the double digit. An 11-year old growing girl is kind, lovable, and sweet. 

Saee Turns 11


Saee turned 11 years old on 14, August, Wednesday. Excitement has been on a high level since August's first day. I still remember a small baby saee, a toddler saee, and now my little doll entered in double Digit 😊 She has changed so much when I see her.  I can see an independent, travel-loving,  extrovert, social, active, and, creative girl who loves her family and friends. I can see baby saee, toddler Saee and now fully matured saee. Blessed to have a girl like her, GREATFUL! 

Saee Turns 11


Saee suddenly grew into a big girl when her twin sister arrived in our family. She was tiny, but she loved her sister so much. I can see mature growth during these last 3 years, and I feel my daughter is moving away from me slowly.


Saee Turns 11


SAEE BIG SISTER: 

Big sister Saee is the best. I am really blessed to have such a sincere, kind, loving, and creative big sister. 


Saee Turns 11


As big sisters, we never imposed any responsibilities. In fact, I adore that she took on many of on her own. Being in a nuclear family, she understands many things. She understands the family values. And her whole world is her mummy, pappa and twin sister. 


Saee Turns 11


As a big sister, she always behaves like a mature girl. She love both twins and, at the same time, play with them too. 
I want to mention that siblings dispute is there too. My little toddler irritated her purposefully, and she does love her too much. Sometimes Saee finds it difficult to handle little sisters, and sometimes she handles them very well. Which surprised me a lot ! The bond these three girls have with each other fills my heart. 


11th YEAR BIRTHDAY PARTY : 


Saee Turns 11

This year's birthday party was special and filled with surprises. She wanted to have a magician, and when she asked, we denied it. ( Due to some reason) Later, at her birthday party, we surprised her with a magic show. 


Saee Turns 11



Today's generation is made up of BTS fans. Her father ordered a BTS cake . She was about to cry. And so, not having appropriate pictures.

Saee Turns 11


The last surprise is a dance party. Adults as well as kids, we all had a blast. The dance party songs were Zingat, Gangam Style, Nagin Dance and the list will go on. The birthday party ended at 10:30 which is quite late. I forced everyone to go. 


Saee Turns 11


We enjoyed this party  mindfully and so I didn't have any special pictures or every pic. And you know what I don't have any regrets about that. 

RANDOM THINGS ABOUT BIRTHDAY GIRL: 

Saee loves her school so much. Her favourite thing is to go to school with friends and have non stop chitchat. Sometimes I have to force her to stay at home for rest. 


Saee Turns 11


Her favourite subjects are English, Science and Marathi. I am surprised when I saw the love for Marathi Language. Apart from that she love to draw, filled her diary with lots of interesting stuff and doing craft. She still love to share all little things with me, about school, teacher and friends. She adore her teacher and sometimes don't understand mean behaviour of some friends. She is far away from the jealousy and competitiveness.


Saee Turns 11


The most important thing she is adorable and favourite of all school friends and some teachers too. She is favourite among her siblings.


Saee Turns 11



Favourite Fruits : Apple, Banana Pear Plum, Mango, Watermelon Almost all fruits.

Favourite Fast Food : Pizza, burger, sandwich, shawarma, Frankie, Cookies, cakes.

Favourite Healthy Food : She is purely non-vegetarian. But love homemade food most of the time. 

  • Biryani, except veg biryani. 
  • All kinds of egg dishes. Egg omlette and egg burji , egg curry the favourite.
  • Mutton rather than chicken.
  • Paneer - all kind of paneer dishes
  • Kabab - all kind of chicken kabab. 
  •  kheema and vajadi too. 
  • She doesn't like to eat Chinese at all. 



  • Geronimo Stilton 
  • Dork Diary 
  • Sudha Murthy lost the temple 
  • WHY (science book / science wikipedia)

Favorite Screen Show : Currently not so in screen but watch these only. 

Naruto - Anime 
Movie - still not into

Favorite Musical Band :
BTS
Black Pink

Favourite Song: 

Hindi song: Kashmir main tu Kanyakumari 

English Song : Middle of the night.
Butter, Pink Venom

Favourite Outfit : 

Her defination of fashion is comfy clothes: 
Jeans 
T shirt 
Leggings 
One piece 
Pyjama
Loose t- shirts
Korian Tops

As a growing girls still she don't like to have a make up and I am really happy for that.

Favourite Colour : Purple and Black

Favourite Animal : Rabbit 

Wake up and sleep time
Wake up on 6:30 am and sleep generally 10 : 30 pm


Saee Turns 11



LIKES : 

Sleeping 
Karate
Badminton 
Carrom
Drawing 
Crafting
Diary Stuff
Playing with twins
Siblings and cousin 
Whistles 
Roming around neighbourhood with friends 
Non stop chitchat
School 
Eating 
Making omlette 
Toast bread on gas
Taking selfie


Saee Turns 11





It been 11 years that you made me "Mother" First born child is always special and we both love you so much till. 

Yes, pre teen era has started and sometimes it is difficult to understand but we as a parent also learning and growing with her. 

"Be the best version of you "
And stay humble and kind person as you are already. 







I saw the changes in her since her childhood. When I read it back it filled my heart with love and bring tears in my eyes. Glad I restored all these milestone on my blog. 

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Sunday 18 August 2024

FRIDAY SPECIAL NARALIBHAT (II)

 

NARALIBHAT is a special authentic traditional recipe. Generally it is made for the festival - Narali Pournima and Rakshabandhan. 



WHAT IS NARALI POORNIMA?  

Narali Poornima is celebrated on Raksha bandhan. It is a double celebration in the region of Goa, Maharashtra and Karnataka.  

Naralipournima is celebrated by the koli community. It is hindu festival. The fishermen community offers coconut and worship the ocean. The devotees pray to God and seek his blessings for giving livelihood.



WHAT IS NARALIBHAT?

NARALIBHAT is a rice cooked in coconut and jaggery. Naralibhat is very delicious and easy recipe. Whenever there is festival and you want to try something new, quick sweet dish or dessert you can try this simple Naralibhat recipe. And you know me very well. I am making only simple dishes 😁


NARALIBHAT
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RECIPE :NARALIBHAT/ COCONUT RICE 


Ingredients: 

2 cups ambemohar Rice

2 cups of grated coconut 

1/2 cup ghee homemade ( sajuk toop)

3 cup grated Jaggery 

1/2 cup dry fruits ( cashew, Almond, prunes) or as per your choice. 


For Tadka 

10 to 12 cloves

1 TSP cardamom and nutmeg powder


Some preparation are as follows 

  • Clean and wash rice thoroughly under the tap water.
  • Fry dry fruits in ghee.
  • Great coconut and jaggery. 


Direction: 

Naralibhat can be made in two steps. 

       The first step is to cook rice: 

  • Wash rice very well and keep it soaked for 15 minutes. Remember to remove all the water.
  • Heat ghee and add lavang and then add rice , roast it very well.
  • Add 4 cups of water and cook the rice. 
  • Second step : Preparation of coconut and Jaggery mixture.

  • Heat 1/2 ghee and fry all dry fruits one by one.

  • In another pan cook jaggery and coconut together. Stir it continue. 
  • Lastly add cooked rice and fried dry fruits in it.

  • Sprinkle nutmeg and cardamom powder.

  • Mix it very well and keep it on low flame for 5 minutes.

  • Your delicious Coconut rice / Naralibhat is ready. 


Tips : 

  • You can use milk instead of water. 
  • You can use half water and half milk too. 
  • You can add up sugar if you want more sweet.
  • If you use coconut milk it will be more tasty. 


I learned it from my MIL. It is not my recipe. Do try this delicious Naralibhat for this Naralipournima or any other festival. 



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Friday 16 August 2024

BEST FRIENDSHIP K - DRAMA: THIRTY NINE

Hello, Happy Friday, 

Any K drama fans here? I am addicted to K drama but I am very choosy on selecting it. One of my favourites is Thirty-Nine - Best Friendship Korean drama. It is filled with girls' friendship, love, small disputes, emotions and life. This drama is a realistic picture of a lifetime friendship.


BEST FRIENDSHIP K DRAMA THIRTY NINE


We all have friends but how many of them remain in our lifetime? Maybe one or two. Right,  because as we grow older our circle becomes smaller. This is true and proven in this series. 


ABOUT DRAMA   : 


Thirty-Nine is a k drama that features the life of 3 female friends who are about to turn 40. The trio shares life, happiness, love and pain. They are in solidarity in support of each other. They had been friends since the age of 18 and knew each other like the back of their hands.


One of them is diagnosed as stage 4 pancreatic Cancer and then the life of this trio has changed drastically. Instead of looking back, they decided to do things which they wanted to do and that makes them happy. Trio decides to concentrate on the present.

BEST FRIENDSHIP K DRAMA THIRTY NINE



ABOUT CHARACTER :


The story revolves around three female friends: Cha Mi Jo, Jeong Chang Young and Jang Jo Hee.


Cha mi Jo ( Son Ye -jin

is a warm character. She belongs to a wealthy family and runs a derma clinic with her sister. Later she found that she was adopted by this family which broke her heart and she tried to find out the real mother. Her journey is emotional and heartbreaking.  


Jeong Chang Young ( Jeon  Mi-do) 

She is the main character of this series. She wanted to be an actress but she turned into an acting coach. Her parents own Jeong's kitchen in Yangpyeong. She is quite a straightforward person but sincere towards her family and friends. 


Jang Jo Hee ( Kim Ji-hun) 

is a cosmetic manager at the department store. She lives with her mother and has a timid persona but is sweet and loveable. She always becomes a sandwich in two of them. She is sensitive so both friends try to keep her away from the unwanted things. 




How do you feel when you get to know your friend is about to die within a few months? This trio's journey is inspiring. 

From a simple story of friendship, they explored their growth together and became the best part of each other. The story is a bit emotional but highlights many things. Friendship is the base of the series and it does bring tears to your eyes. When I watched the last episode it took me a week to move on. 


WHY DO I LIKE THIS DRAMA? 


The emotions, culture and respect for each other are best shown in the K drama - the speciality of the drama. Some moments of this trio's friendship shine like a diamond. The way they supported and cheered for one another was terrific. We can feel the love among themselves.


BEST FRIENDSHIP K DRAMA THIRTY NINE


Some of the moments surprised you like

Mi Jo answered “friend” to Seon Woo’s question of what she liked at the age of 29. 

Jang Hee wanted to open a shop and when she won the lottery instead of using it for herself she gave that luck to Chan Young. 

Mi Jo gave up on her trip to the States to take care of her sick friend.

BEST FRIENDSHIP K DRAMA THIRTY NINE


MY FAVOURITE SCENES OF THE DRAMA: 

# Jeong knows she will die soon. Her fears when she talks with Cha - what will happen after my death? What will be my funeral? Will people cry for me? These scenes give me goosebumps. 


# Jeong gives a list of her friends which she wants to have at her funeral. Cha actually invited all of them when she was alive. This scene touched my heart and I teared up. Being a best friend she fulfilled her wish in her presence only.  And she is happy to leave this world. 


# Being adopted is heartbreaking. Every adopted kid wants to find real parents and why they left them. But the truth is it's not the kid's choice to be left and abandoned. Everything ends when Cha realizes that her adopted parents are the real family which provides her love and happiness. Accepting these facts makes her life easier rather than finding out the truth.


# After realising that our friend was living for a few days Cha and Joo were constantly with her. Two of them are staying with her at home to take care of her by adjusting their jobs. They had a night out, food and lots of girl's fun. The way Cha and Jang tried to be happy in front of her and cheer up while struggling inside to lose her is painful. 


#Finally three of them got their boyfriends in thirty-nine. Exactly the way they wanted. They enjoyed the food, snow and karaoke together. 


# Fear of death is scary.  When you know you are going to die after some days how will you feel?  

BEST FRIENDSHIP K DRAMA THIRTY NINE


Jeong visited the funeral and tried to see herself in that position. She was scared of what would happen to her body when she died. Her acting is so natural that you even flow with the pain and emotions


# After her death these two friends with their boyfriends and with Jeong's boyfriends meet each other frequently. They used to meet her parents to celebrate birthdays every year and take care of them. Life must go on but both never forget her.

Have you really seen such a friendship?


BEST FRIENDSHIP K DRAMA THIRTY NINE


MY FAVOURITE QUOTES/ DIAlOGUE :


Everyone dies but I don't know what will happen to me once I die and I think that's what scares me - Chanyoung 


This is about the things that won’t come back. This is about our moments.” – Chanyoung


Let’s live in the present.” – Kim Seonu


Will be able to muster up strength before the uneasiness turns into fear?” – Cha Mijo


Time passes by slowly when you’re lying on a hospital bed. It makes you think of things.” – Chanyoung


Some days were clear and sunny, while some days were very overcast.” – Cha Mijo


When you’re overwhelmingly grateful, you find it so hard to express your gratitude.” – Chanyoung


Life is so capricious.” – Cha Mijo


That was our choice. To live like there’s no tomorrow. Like there’s no sadness. That’s how we decided to spend each day.” – Cha Mijo


BEST FRIENDSHIP K DRAMA THIRTY NINE


WRAP UP : 


It is hard to find real friends. Life is too short. Enjoy every moment of life the way it is. Life is filled with full of happiness when you have true and loving friends. A true friend always cares for you and is always available for you. If you have such friends then I will say you are lucky. Be with them no matter what happens, other relations may not live longer but friendships stay forever. 

BEST FRIENDSHIP K DRAMA THIRTY NINE


Available on: Netflix 

Number of Episodes: 12


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Question of the day.

Do you like K Drama? Do you like my post? Have you watched Thirty-Nine? 


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Monday 12 August 2024

5 THINGS TO BE LEARNED FROM QUEEN

Hello and happy Saturday! 

One of my favorite and most successful Bollywood films is Queen. It is the story of a Punjabi middle-class girl, Rani, who is left heartbroken. Her fiance calls off the wedding right after her mehendi ceremony. Then she decided to go on a honeymoon alone in Paris. It is the journey of self-love and self-growth of Queen, aka Rani.

                          

After watching this movie, every girl should learn these five things. I was happy to see her happy with her new self-discovery. 

 

5 THINGS TO BE  LEARNED FROM QUEEN




PLOT OF THE MOVIE:

RANI is a naive girl who grew up in a stereotypical family. She is followed everywhere by her brother, who is smaller than her. She can't make decisions on her own. For everything, she had to ask her parents. 

 

Vijay, her fiancé, convinced her to have dinner with him. He is the one who has followed her since college. And suddenly, he calls off the wedding right after the mehendi ceremony. Then she decided to have a solo honeymoon, picked up her bags, and explored the bad world.

 

After watching this film, I can relate to so many things. Sometimes I ask myself, Will I be able to travel solo? Do I have the courage to change my life by myself? Do we really need a man in our lives? Though I am both a mom and a woman, some questions are always there. 

 

5 THINGS TO BE  LEARNED FROM QUEEN 

5 THINGS TO BE  LEARNED FROM QUEEN


1. DON'T BE AFRAID TO STEP OUT OF COMFORT ZONE

 

After breaking her marriage, Rani decided to travel to Paris for Solo Honeymoon. The girl never wandered alone in her neighborhood, but she wanted to travel to Italy all by herself. 

 

And she did it very well. The first step was to get out of the comfort zone. She found many difficulties, but she learned many things during this journey.

 

2 SOLO TRAVEL ADVENTURES 

 

Yes, solo travel is an adventure. I am still not able to make up my mind about solo travel. Solo travel teaches you lots of things. Traveling to unknown places, meeting different kinds of people, learning about new cultures, and collecting various experiences all contribute to your personal growth. It changed our perspective on life, which transformed our personalities. 

 

5 THINGS TO BE  LEARNED FROM QUEEN

3. THE FREEDOM 

Freedom is what all women want! Since our childhood, then entering adulthood, and after getting married, even after becoming mothers, our freedom has always been locked by someone. 

 

This movie taught me that you should experience freedom once in a life may be for short period. Freedom means you can do what you want to do. You can live the life of who you are and not pretend. 

Freedom makes you strong, independent, and brave. Freedom makes you free from a constantly nagging world. You can learn many things from your mistakes, and that will be your own growth experience. 

 

5 THINGS TO BE  LEARNED FROM QUEEN

4. BE FIRM IN YOUR DECISION:

When Vijay understood that Rani went on solo, Honeymoon tried to contact her. Try to persuade her to be with him. He forced her to leave her friends and be with him, but Rani was firm on her decision. Without giving any explanation, she chose to be by herself.

 

We should learn to be firm in our decisions. No matter what the situation is, we should always respect our decision and try to be firm on it. 

 

5 THINGS TO BE  LEARNED FROM QUEEN


5. BE THE BEST VERSION OF YOURSELF

When she returned her engagement ring and left Vijay, that was one of the most beautiful scenes of the movie. I can feel her happiness. It shows a girl doesn't require a man to be happy. She has enough for her happiness. 

Through her solo honeymoon journey, Rani evolved and found the new version of herself, which was a happy girl. The journey of self-discovery is tremendous. 

 

We always have to be ourselves. Kick out the judgment of society and be the best version of yourself. 

 

5 THINGS TO BE  LEARNED FROM QUEEN


WRAP UP : 

The movie's plot revolves around self-discovery and self-growth. There are many things that we women can learn from this movie. Queen teaches you that the world is going to be the way it is. After all, it is your choice. What we experienced and learned It added to our self-growth. 


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Have you watched Queen? What do you learn ?

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Monday 5 August 2024

FRIDAY SPECIAL PAAV BHAJI #I

Hello and welcome to my blog. Happy Sunday guys. How was your weekend? Our was slow. Friday special is a series where I am going to share special recipes I made for dinner. Sometimes we do take away food but most of the time I prepare at home. Healthy and clean eating is the goal. 


Friday is a lazy day. But I make sure to eat something new, easy and tempting. Apart from dal rice. On this Friday we had Paav Bhaji. 


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WHAT IS PAAV BHAJI?


Paav bhaji is one of Mumbai's famous street foods. It is popular all over India. It was a quick meal option for textile workers in Mumbai. The literal meaning of Paav means bread roll and bhaji means gravy of mixed vegetables. Paav bhaji is the Marathi name as dish was born in Mumbai. 


Bhaji - the main attraction of the dish - the gravy of mixed vegetables. Paav means bread roll. The paav bhaji is a gravy of mixed vegetables, butter loaded bread roll and served with lemon wedges, and lots of chopped onions. 

Traditional bhaji consists of cauliflower, peas, potato and lots of tomato. I made whatever was available in my fridge. Many times I made it with those veggies which my family members do not like to eat. 😁 Cruel Mom, Yes, I am! 

In today's post I am sharing paav bhaji recipe which I made from brocolli 🥦 and bottle gourd. 



Serve 2 to 4 people 

INGREDIENTS

1 cup Brocolli 

1 cup Dudhi (Bottle Gourd)

3 Big Potato 

3 Tomato 

1 Capsicum 

3 Onion 

2 tbsp Oil  

Cubes of Amul butter : As much as you can handle 

1 cup chopped coriander leaves 

1 Lemon 

1 Turmeric

1 tbsp Red chilli powder or (as per your taste)

2 tbsp Everest Paav bhaji Masala

Salt : as per taste 


DIRECTION  :

  • Wash all the vegetables and chop in big chunks except capsicum.

  • Pressure cook all vegetables including broccoli, bottle gourd, potato for 4 whistles.

  • Blanch Tomato and make a paste of it.

  •  Once the pressure cooker cools down remove the lid and let the vegetables cool. 

  • Meanwhile chopped capsicum, onion, lots of coriander leaves.

  • Grind all pressure cook vegetables or mash it with a masher. I prefer to grind. 

  • Heat oil in a kadai. Add 2 cubes of Amul butter. Add onion and capsicum together and fry till the onion becomes translucent.

  • Next add tomato paste and fry for 1 minute.

  • Add all Powder masala and fry everything until the oil separates from the tomato.

  •  Add mashed vegetables and fry.

  • Add salt according to the taste and one cube of Amul Butter.

  • Add water to make gravy. According to your preference how much you want your gravy thick or thin. 

  • Lastly add 1 TSP paav bhaji masala again and coarnider leaves. Fry a little bit and cover with the lid.

  •  After 5 minutes switch off the flame. Add Amul butter cube and close the lid. 

  • After 10 minutes, you can serve this bhaji with paav. 


PREPARATION OF PAAV :

  •  Cut the bread roll in two half.
  •  Put tawa on flame. 
  •  Once it hot low down the flame   and add an Amul butter cube. 
  •  If you want masala paav then you   can add red chilli powder and   coriander leaves to the butter.
  •  Put paav on that mixture and   roast the paav.


Your delicious paav bhaji is ready. Serve with chopped onions, lemon wedges and Amul butter cube.


HOW TO EAT PAAV BHAJI?

  • First squeeze lemon juice on bhaji
  • Then add lots of chopped onions and coriander leaves. 
  • Then mix it very well with the help of spoon.
  • Take small portion of paav and dip in the bhaji and then directly put it in your mouth,
  • Yummm! 


TIPS

  • You can add beetroot for the red colour along with all vegetables.
  • The more butter the more tasty your gravy. So make it delicious. 
  • You can add any vegetables of your choice but the main ingredient is potato and tomato. 
  • Grate cheese cube on this bhaji your cheese paav bhaji is ready.


WRAP UP : 

Paav bhaji is Mumbai 's street food or you can say fast food. But this tasty food you can prepare at home in 15 minutes. Once or twice in a month you can have it in your meal. It is a good option to eat clean and homemade food. Though it is loaded with butter and paav but I guess once in a while you can eat this delicious meal. Next day do more workout 😂 Eat without any guilt please. 


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