Lock down- HOLIDAY

Bio- weapon,

Janata curfew,

Clapping at 5.00 pm.

Finally, lockdown for 21 days,

Hussshhhh, we are going through this for months but still not getting out from it. You know the reason why?  It is simply because some of the idiots are not following the simple orders and hence we are on the urge to finding a new case on daily😒

Yes, I know it is very difficult to be inside the home,

Yes, it is very difficult to keep your little ones busy all the time,

Yes, it is very difficult to prepare a new dish as per the demand of the family members,

Yes, it is very difficult to just eat, net-surfing and sleep,

Yes, it is very difficult to do cleaning and cooking continuously,

Yes, it is!!

Mother Nature challenged us, and why not we are the monster who thinks that we are powerful. But this is not the truth, She is the one who can still make us or destroy us. Finally, we are been locked and confronted. If you accept the situation and try to enjoy it, then it will be more relaxing.

No, I am not going to tell you anything about this Covid-19. We are very well equipped with the information that is flooded via What’s App, Twitter, Facebook, and Instagram, about do’s and don’ts. Yes or not? And what are we doing, without realizing whether it is true or false just forwarding to one another and no one is following anything 😖 Some of them are true and some are false? But what I feel is that we are disturbing ourselves only.

Instead, visit the official websites that are WHO and mygov.in.

Just think that you got the holiday due to Covid-19 and enjoy every bit of the second of this time with your family. Think, which is the last time when you relax and sit with calm? Which one is the last time where you and only your family chilled out? Think which one is the last time where all of your family members are chitchatting with each other?

There are lots of information, educational videos, workout videos, books, which are free and in abundance. We always have complaints that we are not having time to do a little bit for ourselves. So what are you thinking now? Here it is!!  Time and time and time and time. 😊

Do try to utilize this time with freely available information on the internet instead of forwarding just CORONA related messages. And stop spreading stress.

No, I am not going to give you any ideas on how to spend time because we are getting already via what’s App. But one of the most favors of this situation is you are getting free most of everything. There are lots of free PDF versions of children’s and elder's books. Start reading if you are not yet 😕and you can instill the reading habit to your little one.😊 There are lots of indoor games we can play with our family members and can learn new things. Currently, I am learning Mandala art, and what about you? Comment down please, what you are learning right now?

Instead of this pandemic just concentrate what MOTHER NATURE is trying to teach us. She is saying “SLOW DOWN”,

You are not the one who can conquer the whole world. Still, she is the one who can decide how to treat us. Don't forget and slow down your life. Look, how our life is filtering. Understand the real value of each second and love for the family. Every time we as an educated monster are not always right! Mother Nature is the one who can save us or can destroy us if we do not follow her rule.

I don’t want to go in a debate whether it is really a bioweapon or manmade viruses or third world war which is been with person to person at everyone's doorstep.  But trust me, whatever it is, “IT IS”, and we don’t have any other option rather than accept the situation where we can only take precaution otherwise our India will be another Italy. 😑

We all know, what this is!

LUST to conquer the whole world!

And we the normal citizen pissed off without any reason. But who cares? They just want their own power. It may be wrong or right I don't know. And I don't want to get into this subject as it will be given out more debate.

Moreover, I am suggesting, just enjoy this holiday with your family. I know this holiday word sounds more dramatic but if you take it from the heart it will reduce more problems in EVERYONE’s life. It is a chance to have communication with your loved one. It is a time where no one is talking about caste and religion. It is a time where there is not a single case of rape and assault. It is a time where we can have peace by being locked down ourselves inside our home. Everyone loves their own life and want to live it. So don't waste this time and try to make it more fun and loving without stepping out to the world. This is the way to make your valuable contribution to our NATION.

Don’t forget to READ.

What? Books which are available free of cost.

Don’t forget to listen, what?

Music and songs,

Don’t forget to dance with your little one,

Don't forget to have a workout with your spouse. 

Don’t forget to minimize the usage of the Internet so that we are able to restore the internet speed.

Last and very important,

Don't forget to laugh.😄

I hope this pandemic brings you close to your loved one and fill your life with lots of love and happiness. If we think we are happy, we will be happy. There is so much negativity all over the world due to this pandemic. So, be positive and if we all think positively that everything will be fine, then sure it will. Instead of spreading negativity spread happiness by being inside the home with your family. If your family is happy, then the whole world will be happy!!

On this positive note I am signing off,

STAY SAFE, STAY POSITIVE AND STAY INSIDE THE HOME !!

 

HOLI 2020 (Celebration at Western Dance Studio)

Memories are built by the special moment which we spent together with a loved one. We don't remember the days but yes we always remember the person, the feelings with we enjoy every precious moment.  These small memories always bring smiles on our faces.😊

We are blessed to have such friendship among us and despite we are in different age groups but have one thing is common in us AND that one is CRAZINESS.😍😎

It is always best to have crazy friends to do all utpatang😉 things ! And I am blessed to have them. No matter how busy we are but when we called each other for such silly enjoyment we all gather together on a toe, right girls?

We don't need any reason for celebration. Whenever we get a chance we all are ready to mingle together.  Indeed, there is the weekend of two festivals one is “ Women’s Day" and the other one is "Holi” so how can we miss this chance.

We are charged ourselves to have the fun on our trail with our small kiddos.  Love to be small again with our kids and enjoyed some silly games too. 

Holi is one of the best festival among all festivals which is celebrated throughout India united, without having any difference in caste, religion, and gender. From the small kids to the old adults, each one enjoys this festive with full of joy and colours. All of you already aware of how we are celebrating before - Holi in class, school, college, office, workplace, etc. 

I hope this CORONA VIRUS allows our Indian to have this festival celebration.

We have the small one in our silly way.  

We don't know whether our societies will have “HOLI CELEBRATION” or not but we don't want to waste this time and got ready with some color and lots of chocolates. Let me share some Holi celebration glimpse from our dance crew. The sad thing is our king was absent, but we enjoyed every bit of it.

Wishing all of you a very HAPPY and COLOURFUL HOLI.

Wishing all gorgeous women's there  " A HAPPY WOMEN's DAY"  in advance. 

Stay Happy and cheerful always!

An Open Letter To My Daughter#BlogALeague

My sweet, sweet Saee,

Tuesday, December 2012, at 12:30 pm. my gynac confirming my report on telephone with his pathology. When she blew her thump my eyes teared up & I started to cry. This is how you decide to come into our lives and our new journey started. After enjoying each trimester I wanted to bring you to this world on Independence day. But at 9 days overdue, the doctor said it was the time to welcome you!

After a roller coaster from the night finally, you arrived on 14^th August 2013 at sharp 7:30 a.m.Your dad was silent and crying. I remember my excitement to see you and when I look into your eyes, it was you, my doll 😀but not the way I imagine. You are now 6 years old and still your papa and I wonder how we are so blessed!

You are a loving and happy girl .  It is evident that when you got up from the sleep, you raise your little hands up and telling me to take in my arms. I still love to take you in my arms and spend some time by simply hugging you.

I remember how Divu and Arya (cousin brother) waiting for you and started to dance when they saw you.  It is evident that how your grandfather and uncle eagerly waiting for you and stood at the gate of the building to welcome you. Love the way when you hugged them all and give your love to each one. It is evident that you still hide behind the door to welcome your papa and giggling around him. I hope you will be the same loving and kind-hearted person in your life.

My favorite hobby is playing with you. Love when I hide and you search me all over the house. Love when you prepared food from your tiny kitchen and served me. Love when you want that I should bath your baby doll and make her ready like you. Love to play with small badminton and when you got angry with me by saying, "Mummy, tula khelata nahi yet."  (You don't know how to play).  Love to be your Google to answer your tiny questions. You are my chatterbox and love to have a verbal fight with you. Love to make you angry so that I can have more fight with you.

You are a tough but sensitive girl. You taught me a lot of things throughout my motherhood journey.  Especially I learned how to be strong, how to develop patience and how to fight all alone with our circumstances. You are so joyful that you taught me how to find joy in simple things. You taught me how to be grateful for everyday life. You are a very confident girl and stick to your choices and never regret back. I hope you always have that determination.

My sweet little lady, you always been a daddy's girl (https://memoryflies.blogspot.com/2016/02/daddys-girl) and will be forever. I remember the way he talked with you when you were in my womb and he talks with you till to date in the same way which makes my heart melt. No wonder that is why your bond with your father is so strong. Love when you still wanted to be in his arms and want to dance with him. Love that you missed him when he is away from home. Loves whenever you both tiny giants fill the whole house with noise and craziness. Love when both of you irritate me. Love your manipulations, that how you fulfill your every demand from your papa. I hope this bond with your dad will be more tighten along with the time and your daddy will be always your best friend.

If there is only one thing you remember from these 6 years of your life, I hope you remember feeling loved. Your papa and I love you more than a word can express.  You are the only reason which makes our bond so strong and deep. You filled our world with more joy. Love the way you love both of us.

Thank You beta,

Mummy.

 This post is written for #BlogALeague with Ruchi, Dipika, Charu and Preetjyot.

Every Child Is Unique: Picture Prompt#BlogALeague

Parenthood is a difficult roller coaster and we should enjoy it with our kids.

Unit test is over and preparations are going on for the final exams? But still we are in the situation of comparing our child’s grade with his friends, right or wrong mummy?

This is we 😅, today’s mummy, but un-intentionally we tend to get in comparison always. As soon as we wear the costume of mother our mind starts jumbling:

Why my baby is still not crawling?

Why my baby is still not gaining weight?

Why my baby does not have teeth yet?

Why my baby is not able to eat a full bowl of cereal?

And once they grew up, the question changed like –

he is not writing properly, why ?

He is so slow in reading.

He does not like math?

Why he is not playing outdoor games?

List will never end as a mother. 😀

I am still going through this and sure that every mother is doing the same.

STOP COMPARISON

Each child is born with his/her own intelligence and personality traits. As a parent our job is to shape up their mind to be a good human being.  Our child is born as an independent individual and remembers that in spite of our many trials we cannot change them as per our wish.

Image source: Icecreamcity on Flickr(Pinterest)

The above picture depicts the same thing. Children’s are climbing the building to reach the same goal. Each one of them has their own way to achieve it. In the same way we have to remember that our kid is not going to be the way we want. They may or may not read fluently, write properly, solving math’s problems efficiently or doing extracurricular activity as the way we want. Each child have different learning style and pace. Identify the difference and appreciate their uniqueness.

LET’S ACCEPT,

## Our child is unique and different from the other one. They have their unique way to deal with social, intellectual and physical challenges.

## Accept their boundaries and don’t force them to be excellent in every field. Even we were not so excellent, remember always and don’t pressurize them.

## Accept their choice instead of imposing our.  Practice this at an early stage of child, especially when they are toddlers. Allow your child to choose their own game, friends and even cartoon too. Do not force them to have this and that according to our own thinking what is right for them.

## Accept your child’s weakness. Every child is not intelligent in the academic field. He or she may be excellent in music, dance, painting, and game, in anything. Don’t force them to run in the race which we made for them. They even do not aware about it and please do not instill this in to their mind. Accept them with their weakness and try to improve with their own pace. Not the way we want, as we always want to do it quickly.😐

## Allow them to express their feeling. Do not make them feel bad if something not happened according to our or their wish. If your child is fail in any subject, handle this with love and care instead of anger. Teach them that it is OK to have a failure, as it is a part of our success.

## Last but not the least allow them the way they want to be. We as parents want our child should be like this, please stop that! They born with their own personality and do not try to change it.

"Each child is unique not only in capable of learning but also capable of succeeding."
- Robert John.

I am signing off here. Hope this roller coaster will bring lots of fun in your life and you enjoy the each ride.

Till then Happy Parenting.

This post is written for #BlogALeague with Ruchi, Dipika, Charu and Preetjyot.

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Visit at Karla Lane

I never visited such historical caves ever before. I heard about it and read on Google what exactly it has and have an interest to visit there. It is on high hills due to which Mr. hubby is not ready. It will be very hectic as our daughter was very small and I am very miserable at climbing up 😒

But now after a couple of years we decided to have a one day trip which is very convenient and we successfully made it. It has been told there is nothing to see in karla lane and it is in miserable condition. But I am very curious to visit historical place and their architectures which is around 2000 years before. With proper maintenance it could be more secure for tourist but you know what is the actual status of our Tourism Department especially for Maharashtra. Forts are also in miserable condition😔

All I want that please adore these caves from my lenses. I am sure you will love it.

Some information 😊 I do not think to update here, but as a travel blogger it is rituals....haaa...haaa... to update whatever you know it might be helpful apart from “Google Baba”.

How to travel: The most convenient is hiring a vehicle or have it your own. Mumbai- Pune highway road trip is most comfortable for kids. You will get plenty of option for food and resting.

Cost: Nothing apart from your vehicle and food expense. As it is free of cost with minimal entry fee Rs.10/- per person.

When to visit: It has been said the best season is rainy season where you can lure out greenery and will find some waterfall inside the cave. But I think it is more dangerous because there is the message to be cautious at every lane. So better to go in winter or in summer when your kids have holiday.

Height: No, it is not that much on high though it is situated on hill top. But at some distance you can park your car and easily climb up with the staircase.

Historical Information: Everything is available on Goggle. But still why I love this place is because it is historical and it is a prayer house of Buddhist monk. Moreover it is built by stone and wood structure. It has most of stone carving. It is called as Chaitygrihas. Dome like structure is called Chaitya and monks are living here and they do allow the trade person to take rest here so it is called grihas.  This cave comprise of 16 rock cut excavation which I think we are unable to count due to destruction.

It has semi circular ceiling which is main object of worship which is surrounded by wooden carving. 

Each pillar have sculpture of man and women. There are some messages written on pillar which is in Brahmi language. 

Stone have carving of three elephants which is broken 😒

One of the most favorite think that it has our preamble-  Ashokan Pillars which have carving of Buddha seated on a lion.

Carla lanes carved around 2000 years ago around the 2^nd century of BC. 

Ekvira Goddes temple is near the entrance of Lane.

We enjoyed it as our family trip with small bachcha party and hope you also like it.

High school Reunion 2019

“ Reunion reveals friendship potential that haven’t yet been emerged in the past.”

-Toba Beta

True !! Yes…it is. We really surprised when we saw the real person in our close friend. Glad to have each one of you as a nice human being, which is very difficult to find in today’s world.

A big “Hi” and a warm welcome to all my readers who missed my post. Thanks a lot for your love and support. It is only you who inspire me to write though I am not a good writer…ahh…ahh… I am not a writer. This is a place where I can hang out with my feeling and words with lot of mistake. 😅 I am trying to treasure every memory and sometime failed too but you readers get me back to drive it.

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At each stage of our life we came across with many friends but the school friends are always near and dear one. I want to pen it down as much as possible to treasure this sweet memory.

Let me introduce my high school friends with whom I enjoyed my school life. Yes this is my school friend’s reunion 2019 which is hit among us after having lots of trial and error 😊

This is our “10 D” batch. Some of them are in the same division from standard 5 and some of them joined from 8^th grade. Our “10 D” is always remains special throughout our school “NEW HIGH SCHOOL”, right or wrong guys? Still we missed our school days and our teachers too. 

Whenever we meet, we tend to virtually sit in our school division which was on 3^rd floor beside the library. This picture comes in front of eyes and makes everyone happy. The most important thing that we are united as a whole batch till date and will remain forever.

Reunion is become a fad now days.  Credit goes to Social media where everyone able to find out there dear ones. It was in 2012 when my three friends and I gathered all friend contact numbers from facebook and other social media and successfully had our first reunion. How many of you  remember this? I still remember how much we were excited for our first reunion and happy to see the same excitement in this year too.

And the tradition still going on and will continue for coming more exciting years. We will make every meet up as much as exciting. The most thrilling part of this reunion is Aplana who came all the way from Nagpur.👍 

This 2019 reunion is our “10 D” first official picnic, I would say it is official because after many trial and errors we successfully made it.😓 It was really annoying when you decide to go by bus and  don’t know how many are really going to join us. We supposed to gather at 6:30 a.m. but somehow manage to depart around 7:45 a.m. with so many hick-ups😝 and finally reached at our destination- Pune. It was really funny because our school never had a picnic and finally we made it. Special thanks to Swapnil and Bipin who make the picnic more enjoyable.

What is Reunion?

Comment down your precious views.

For me, meeting after so many years and try to find out whether he or she is the same buddy? You will realize remarkable things about them. Some of them not even utter a single word in a school but now they are the spokesperson 😮 who gives motivational speech. Some of them used to be very naughty but now become a sincere guy. Some of them are as it is the way they were. Happy to see those guys who have achieved their childhood dreams. This is we called “FOCUS” which very few people have. 😔  We came to realize that there are vast career options, apart from regular career, like IT, Medical, Food, Education, Engineer, etc. Every one of us has a remarkable career and I wish all of you to have more success in your life.

Not every student got such type of friends group at this stage of life. I am really blessed to have each one of you.  Delight to see that everyone is able to beat up the life obstacles and reached towards their goal.  Be Happy and always united with our group without having any quarrels😂 

Let me share some glimpse of our special day:

 Re-intro session

This is the special gift to everyone. Love to see our whole group on it.

Special thanks to Jayshree and her team who made a nice arrangement. Stay tuned for every reunion as we grow old we tend to become smaller again. Don’t miss out that fun of reunion.

I would like to sum up by giving our special thanks to each of us who make this 2019 Reunion successful. Many more years are waiting for our celebrations.

Cheersss guys!!!!

Photo Credit: Prashant Marathe.